They just live on another planet

I am just reading the post tonight and thinking back on my exN. I really can not believe how much i was disconnected from the reality of his world. I cant begin to tell you how many conversations took place that never even made any sense now looking back. This person truly lived on another planet. He had no desire to have a stable normal life. He had no comprehension of what that would even entail. I am just wondering if they really ever have any desire to attain something of substance in their lives or is this just a free for all floating existence till the day they die? Just empty and meaningless??????I dont understand how one could survive this way. What is it that makes want to wake up tomorrow?

helldweller's picture

I went on one of those "make your own art" web stores where you choose from old movie posters and things and put in your own writing to make a custom poster. I chose for my N, John, an old outer space movie poster with a sort of Flash Gordon guy holding his blonde, scantily clad space girl, with planets exploding around them. The title was "Planet (blank)" and I inserted his last name. The teaser text could be changed and I wrote in, "The universe has exploded, the laws of nature turned upside down, and nothing makes sense, but never fear . . . John says everything is fine!" He didn't get it. He thought I was just portraying him as "my hero."
NancyM's picture

That is too funny. What a knob head he is. LOL

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betty2020's picture

LMAO. My god they have got to be the dumbest creatures on the face of this earth! This is my point, no intelligence level of a human. Just living in space and clueless.

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betty2020's picture

What is so sad is the fact that there will always be supply for them. They will always find someone to victimize because they are the best at identifying weak targets. Mine uses the internet (myspace) for his supply. He knows exactly what he is looking for. He is not much of a hunter and rather lazy so he finds the weakest, meekest, fragile girl that he can to target. The new supply was a homeless, just divorced, lost her kids, tattooed biker girl that refers to herself as "a fucked up individual". It doesn't get any easier than that. He moved her in and gave her food. Thats it: new supply. There are so many out there like this. Endless supply.

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

GIJ's picture

That gets them going each day. One question asked - where or where shall I get my supply today? Cuz if I don't get it, I'm going to disappear. Unless, of course, they have done their homework and have the supply lined up and are confident they can coast for a bit. Then they wake up and say, yes - I am truly god and rule my world.
Happy1's picture

My N is getting his supply now from the all the people on surrounding boats where he is docked and staying during the week. I don't think they only have to get supply from women but from men as well. My N feels he's very popular right now with his precious boat and he has been putting on a great act for everyone there that he's so wonderful and fun loving and easy going. Makes me sick!
hitandrun's picture

You know the mood I am in right now, betty2020. It really is beyond my comprehension how they live in complete fantasy-land about certain aspects of their life. It's okay to lie, because they believe it at the time, so it must be true. And then they can just change the former lie to another lie, meaning the former lie is no longer valid, but it was at the time they said it. Crazy logic(or non-logic). I am looking for the seed of goodness sprouting from this pile of manure. The only thing I can come up with is discernment. I heard narc-speak when I was out with friends...totally recognized it. Because before this nightmare, I would have fallen for the lines and believed them. Instead I just laughed at them.
NancyM's picture

Maybe we could round them all up and dump them on another planet. Don't know why but Uranus seems to spring to mind. Or maybe Saturn...

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GIJ's picture

Uranus is the trickster planet - they might enjoy the game playing plus it would keep them busy and on their toes. Saturn on the other hand is the taskmaster. I like the idea of having these narcs with their nose to the grindstone until they learn their lessons...because they WILL NEVER learn them because they can't. Closest thing to perpetual torture and hell i can think of. Closest thing to what THEY DO to people too!!
Steph's picture

Wouldn't it be interesting to take..say 20 narcs, put them in a room together and then be a fly on the wall to witness. None of them would be interested in hearing about the other and they'd all want the spotlight, so I wonder what their conversations would be like.
NancyM's picture

Its all about who is the most superior and who is the cleverest bully. I worked in a male dominated heavy industry and got to see a fair bit of it in action.

Nevergoback

betty2020's picture

Learning about this sub- species has been a challenge but i have to admit a priceless education i will cherish for eternity. I have a natural inquisitive nature and i am scientific at heart but cant put logic anywhere in the equation of these creatures. They can not have higher levels of intelligence. It is just impossible. Something would add up if this was the case. However, nothing adds up them. It does not matter how many ways i try to make 2+2=4 with these people, i KEEP GETTING 29 1/2 to the 3 power. It is literally driving me crazy.

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

hitandrun's picture

I like to digg and discover things. My ex-whatever is extremely intelligent. Best manners, too. But something is just not right. And I never saw it really until I got dumped. The behavior that followed showed his true colors. For most people, they see the mask of goodness. I don't think science is far enough along with understanding pathologicals. My counselor, after reading WWLP, confessed there isn't much training in this area and it is a REAL problem. You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. There will come a time when much of it computes to the point you can accept the unacceptable. But you will never know the whole truth because it just might be too horrid.