I am just reading the post tonight and thinking back on my exN. I really can not believe how much i was disconnected from the reality of his world. I cant begin to tell you how many conversations took place that never even made any sense now looking back. This person truly lived on another planet. He had no desire to have a stable normal life. He had no comprehension of what that would even entail. I am just wondering if they really ever have any desire to attain something of substance in their lives or is this just a free for all floating existence till the day they die? Just empty and meaningless??????I dont understand how one could survive this way. What is it that makes want to wake up tomorrow?