There is life after $%£(&*^%

It has been a long time since i posted here...must be a good thing i guess..I needed to post now as my two years NC is coming up in a couple of weeks and to reassure those in pain that NC is worth it and that is the only way out. Before I found this site I thought I was going mad and every time I tried to understand what was going on i got more and more confused as we all know they do not sing from the same hyme sheet....My husband left me at my lowest after completely destroying me and with the help of this wonderful group I am proud to say that after almost 2 yrs NC my life has changed and I have made a 360 degree turn around....I am not in another relationship...now that is a bit of a worry bearing in mind before meeting my ex i was a bit needy and vulnerable and could never imagine myself being on my own....but that has changed I LOVE BEING SINGLE....and i am scared of ever going to that dark place again and therefore I avoid intimate relationships. Am I happy? YES...Am I lonely? NO...Do I feel any anger towards him? NO...no more i only feel pity for him.
I take red flags very seriously now and should I give my heart to someone he will have to be pretty special...xx