There is Confusion out there, about what a true n/p is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been reading posts lately, and there seems to be a lot of confusion as to what a n/p is!

For instance, "I want to contact the n, to tell him what he is!" " I want to help the n/p bla, bla, bla...

Ladies, if your dealing with a true n/p you will never help them. Period. They are perfect. They need no help from you, professional people, even god. They think they are God. I understand cd, but when I realized what I was dealing with I educated myself, and take this very seriously. Abuse is abuse. They abuse, use and throw people away. They destroy their own children. They are dangerous because they have no conscience.

I have been reading a lot of posts, where it seems to me, that some folks are taking this lightly. It's not. n/p are dangerous. Period.

Take nc serious. Take healing serious. It's our lives, our safely, our emotional well being at stake. It's not to be taken lightly.

Educate, accept, and move forward. Npd is a life long disorder, period. They never get better. Count your blessings that your out of the madness, and move on and heal and love yourself.

Jen