The term "Girlfriend/Wife" is not used in the proper meaning on this forum

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#1 Jun 26 - 10AM
neverlookback
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The term "Girlfriend/Wife" is not used in the proper meaning on this forum

I think its important to ask ourselves what OUR interpretation of a GF and Wife is - interesting enough you will discover how the psychopath treats his partner (behind her back or upfront) is not how a normal person would treat their partner.

I think Lisa should change the glossary and abbreviations when it comes to the term GF/wives - it should be changed to "opportunities" or perhaps as Sheridan describes them: "Enablers".

How do we get past the current and/or new "enabler"? If you are going to ask this question this is how it should be asked especially when we are trying to understand psychopaths and their dysfunctional relationships. I realize for all practical purposes it will remain GF - but keep in mind that when you are trying to work through the other woman, GF and/or wife - this person is NOT seen in the same light by the psychopath as what OUR normal views on what a partner is. This can eliminate so much pain and cog dis on our part.

We must understand the whole picture when it comes to their pathology, and how they view people - everything and every human being is an opportunity for them to exercise their reason for existence; power, control and manipulation - nowhere in there did I mention LOVE - are you going to tell me you are jealous of the other woman because she is being controlled, manipulated and brainwashed and you no longer are? She is NOT being loved, just as you were never loved STOP being a line that forms the TRIANGLE - draw a picture of a heart and remember their relationship will never have that -

Jun 26 - 4PM
bgirl
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You are soooo right. Stop

Jun 26 - 3PM
Ladydb123
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OW will

Jun 26 - 1PM
Deidre99
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NLB says >>> are you going to

Jun 26 - 1PM
lessonlearned
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i like to refer to all of the N's women as "victims"

Jun 26 - 2PM (Reply to #3)
Goldie
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Exactly and of course the "problem" lie's in the fact

Jun 26 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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Brilliant, Goldie, as always...

spinning

Jun 26 - 1PM
Goldie
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You have that straight NLB