Surprise....EX-N called....

Ladies..

Remember how upset I was when I called ex and he didn't respond? Well, today, he called. I answered. He told me that since I was respectful by calling him without blocking my number, he figured he would call me back. (Gee, thanks)

During the course of the conversation, of course, he HAD to tell me he has a new girlfriend. But then, he offered no details, saying it was none of my business.

He told me that he didn't hate me, but our last conversation in March upset him so much he had to hang up because he felt "manipulated."

He made some sort of dumb comment about how we are "strangers" now. To which I said, "Oh, no we're not. I know you better than anyone. We will NEVER be strangers!"

I got to tell him some things I needed to get off my chest, but all-in-all, the conversation left me pretty numb, and left me more reassured that he DEFINITELY IS a narc.

Later in the afternoon, he CALLED ME BACK, telling me he has some things of mine and wanted to bring them over. He said he would just come over, drop them off, then leave. He did not want to stay and talk to me, because "he didn't like how our earlier conversation went." Here we go again! Blaming me!!

I told him I was with a friend cleaning, and that I didn't think I was emotionally prepared to see him. He then got pissy, saying that if I didn't get back to him about this soon, he would just throw my stuff away; that he was being kind by keeping it this long! I told him I would call him when my friend left and let him know my decision. At this point, my head was killing me and I had to take a xanax!

Later on, I called him and told him I didn't want him to come over, and that he should drop my stuff off on my porch tomorrow while I am asleep in the morning. He said "fine" and that's basically it.

Was it worth it to call him yesterday? NO. Did I learn something? YES. He is, with no doubt in my mind, a NARC.

Maybe now, I will be able to remove him from that dumb pedestal I had him on, and FINALLY move on!!!

XOXO!

Mer