Strong is the Real Sexy

I read an article this weekend with the theme that one night stands are not necessarily bad for you. In addition, I see many posts on here about N's requesting sex without meaning, or requesting three-somes, or other deviant behaviors. So I just wanted to comment on what I think is really sexy, and see if this resonates with your opinion.
When one partner requests that another partner essentially become a willing and energetic body part for the benefit and enjoyment of the requesting partner -- That Is NOT sexy. When one partner acts like he can only enjoy sex if it degrades or demeans the other partner in some way -- that is NOT sexy. Sex is not meant to be a cure for boredom, or a random amusement to be shared with strangers. STD's are rampant, and I read this weekend there is a new strain of gonorrhea that is getting so resistent to treatment that it may well become incurable. This, along with the continuing saga of AIDS, should be enough to keep us all wanting to know MORE about our partner(s), and not less. How can transient sex with an unknown partner provide anything but brief pleasure? And it could provide a lifetime of pain and illness. Please ladies, for your own sakes, don't worry about doing what someone else wants you to do -- be strong enough to take care of yourselves and be safe!!!
In my opinion, strong is the real sexy. Strong as in I am an adult, and I am capable of making a commitment. Strong as in I don't need to sleep with twelve different people in a week to prove how desirable I am. Strong as in, I want to really know you before I am intimate with you. Strong as in, you can depend on me to be who I say I am, do what I say I will do, and to go where I say I am going. Strong enough to help my partner pay bills, and meet commitments, and weather storms. Strong enough to pay attention to my partner's needs, and even sometimes put them before my own if I perceive the need to be important to our relationship or our stability. Be strong ladies, don't let someone's else tell you whether you are sexy, or not. If you are strong, you know who and what you are, and you will be proud of yourself!!!!