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Stick a fork in him with a side of "f*ck you".

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#1 Jan 19 - 7PM
wounded
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Stick a fork in him with a side of "f*ck you".

It's been 6 weeks since my last exchange of words with the dickhead and 3 weeks since I've done any kind of online spying (fb/twitter/google, etc). Things are much better and I am doing well post loser-narc.

I have been dating another guy who is genuinely interested in me and very attentive and validating which has helped me to push the dumbf*ck-narc to the furthest depths of my mind and it feels good to continue seeing that narc really is a narc and a waste of my time.

Like Hunter says: "silence equals 'fuck you'" and those are my last words to narc whether he cares or not.

Hugs,
Wounded

Jan 19 - 10PM
wounded
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No. I am dating another guy, not in a committed relationship.

Me and the narc were never in a committed relationship and I am getting on with my life which includes dating other men. I have a few that I am interested in and taking it slow. Just one in particular I have been spending more time with but so far, no narc flags (yes, I know to not assume anything which again is why I am taking it slow. I understand what you are all saying and I appreciate it. I will continue to be on watch of behaviors. I was really just proud of my progress and wanted to share with you all. I feel that my NC progress is a great accomplishment for me worthy of announcing with of course a little sarcastic humor thrown in to add some seasoning :)
Jan 19 - 10PM
Hope
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This is difficult

You really should go through the pain and try to deal with it without being in a relationship, jumping into something so soon you are really avoiding dealing with those feelings, it's like a crutch. Just a suggestion, but good luck anyway.
Jan 19 - 9PM
nomoredenial
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I would be careful

getting involved with someone so soon after could lead you back to narkville