Spoke to ex-psycho - lies, lies, and more lies!
Spoke to ex-psycho - lies, lies, and more lies!
Update:
In light of the recent pictures of me that were posted on the internet, as per request of my parents I had to make contact with the ex-psycho.
He obviously denied that he posted the pictures. I told him that he needed serious help and he agreed saying that he's known he's needed help for a really long time and he has tried to go to therapy but he "didn't like it."
I told him something that my mom has told me in the past. Whenever I have a gynecology appointment or something that is going to make me uncomfortable I always complain and don't want to go. My mom reminds me that THIS IS MY LIFE, this is MY HEALTH. I told him that it was his life and if he wanted to lie to everyone and have 0 loyalty then it was HIS life, and that all of the people he hurt were going to grow up, and grow stronger because of him and at the end of the day he was going to go to bed with himself. I told him that all the lies he has told must have given him hell, and that I in fact felt bad for HIM. He agreed and said that his life has been hell constantly wondering when he would be caught and when all the women around him would find out. (Note, OBVIOUSLY no mention of it giving him hell because he felt badly at all)
I told him that people don't just wake up one day and decide to hurt people, and therefore I know he had been hurt in the past and he didn't deserve it but to think about how it felt before he went and did that to someone else. Hurt people hurt people. He was like "wow, you know whats crazy? I always say that to the kids at work but it finally makes sense for me now! I get the true meaning of that now!"
He said he was happy with his new girlfriend and that he "just wanted to leave the past behind him and start positive." He told me that he was going to "seriously consider going to therapy and that he was not going to do the same things to his new girlfriend that he did to the girls in the past and that he has finally been sleeping again." He told me that he hadn't posted the pictures because "not to be disrespectful, but he hadn't thought about me at all."
JUST POSTING TO REMIND ALL OF YOU THAT THEY WILL ALWAYS SAY WHAT YOU THINK YOU WANT TO HEAR! There is no.way.in.hell.whatsoever. that he is "happier now with this new girl." There is NO.WAY!
He put me and his ex-gf through hell. He came close to a run-in with the law because of things that he did to me. And in his deluded mind, the second he got new supply he was "happy." Not only that but he is STILL LYING. He will not get therapy, and the second we got off the phone he blocked everything out that I said to him that reminded him that he wasn't as grandiose as he needs to believe that he is. Even if he didn't post the pictures, which I believe he did, the phone conversation I had with him proves everything we talk about here on a regular basis.
I told him that if I see a single picture on there again, I didn't want to have to because it will cost me time and money, but I will have NO CHOICE but to press charges because at that point it will be certain that he cannot control himself and is therefore a threat to society.
I told him that I was in a happy relationship (which was a lie) so he needed to stay away from me for good. He is NOT MY PROBLEM. I AM NOT HIS DOCTOR. I HAVE MY OWN LIFE. I do not believe a WORD out of his mouth. He is an onion heart, I will not spend my life crying.
always remember how manipulative they are!!!
Well done!!
Gravity
:( I'm sorry you had to go
ReclaimingPower
Awesome!!!
Gravity.. One big hug.. As I
100% never been so sure of