Sons a Narcissist

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#1 Feb 20 - 4PM
Elvis
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Sons a Narcissist

Hi
Iv made the decision today to go no contact with my family including my son which means forfeiting time with my grandaughter.
I have already spent a year away and was hoovered to contact again but nothings changed.
I stumbled across information about Narcissists and there was a light bulb moment as it described all the character traits I can see in my son.
He has convinced all my family that I am in the wrong and capitalised on my scapegoat status in the Family.
My Mother who I believe to be another Narcissist and a Narcissist sister have taken my place in my Grandaughter life.
He has convinced the Family he has separated from his partner probably to borrow money to set up a fake home like he told me.
When I text his partner I know it's him answering and manipulating.
Did I cause him to be this way?
I was only 16 when I had him. My mother did and still does have a blind view of his behaviour and he was and still is very much on a pedestal.
When I began to realise the truth he devalued and discarded me and had already started the smear campaign.
He used triangulation with my family and hers and kept us all seperate. Even when I tried to explain after being baited I have not been believed.
I am lucky that I have a supportive partner.

Feb 21 - 6PM
Goldie
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Narcissist Son