Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers....

Ok, I'm trying to think of things differently now. Here we all are.... writing to compassionate strangers who are the only ones who get what we are going through. We are distraught about the Narcs who nearly destroyed all of us. At one point, we may have prayed to our higher power "please help him", "please return the man who loved me" etc.

The truth is God may be helping each and every one of us by NOT answering our cries for help. Our paths may be intentionally being led away from the evil Narcs.

Having contact with exN (or anyone in his life) would be like swimming against the tide and going against everything my mind now knows to be true about him. We all agree on this or we wouldn't write on the board and ask for HELP! when this urge arises.

So, today I'm going to be thankful my prayers went unanswered. Deep down I know this was such a blessing. I hope you all do too.