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So Much Better - Day 6 NC

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#1 Jan 10 - 2PM
lettinggoNP44
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So Much Better - Day 6 NC

The first few days were pure hell. I ended things with my Narc three months ago but since then he's just been badgering me, to the point where I was roped in again. They really are monsters!

The fog was clearing and for several days I couldn't summon up the strength to even leave my apartment. McDonald's and Taco Bell were my best friends. I'm so glad I'm on the other side of that and determined to reach my first goal: 14 days NC, then 30.

NC really is the ONLY WAY to sanity and serenity.

Jan 10 - 9PM
sista
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Me too!!!

We are on the same schedule!! It isn't easy but it works, looking forward to sharing more victories with you!! xo
Jan 10 - 7PM
Sparrow
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It's a chore, especially in

It's a chore, especially in the beginning. It is the hardest thing you will ver have to go through, but well worth the trip. NC really is the answer. Read all you can about the disorder and ask as many questions as you want to. You are in good company. By the way, McDonalds and Taco Bell are not your friends. Leave them at the curb with the narc. :) Fast food is really bad for your emotional as well as your physical health. Believe it or not, it drains you of energy. And so does sugar. Watch what you eat and exercise if and when you can! You will feel better, which leads to coping better! Good luck!
Jan 10 - 4PM
kungpowcat
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Congrats on that

Congrats on that accomplishment! We are on the same NC schedule! I will hold your hand and together we will hit the 14 day mark, then the ONE month mark!!! If you feel weak, PM and we can support each other. xoxoxo KPC
Jan 10 - 3PM
janemarie
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Im so glad you posted your

Im so glad you posted your success!!!! I hope others read this and get a view of how it works and how it feels... NC is really the only way to go!!! Congrats and stay strong!!!! We are all rootin for ya! xoxo
Jan 10 - 3PM
needing2know
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You are so worth it! Stay NC

You are so worth it! Stay NC and so much good will come of it! Great on your 6 days! It may not seem like much, but oh yes it is!!! Good Job!Stay strong ans stay true to yourself and trust yourself! You can do it!
Jan 10 - 3PM
Hunter
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Baby steps .. this is

Baby steps .. this is great.. Hunter
Jan 10 - 2PM
spinning
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Lettinggo, this is the absolute truth...

...and the benefits increase with NC time. Clarity and freedom from self-doubt increases too. You have made outstanding progress since you joined here. I can tell by your posts that you will succeed in moving past the destruction and onto a new life that you desire and deserve. I am so glad you are choosing yourself. Thank you for sharing this at such a critical, early stage of NC. It is the truth and it will help many people. Stay strong. You are on The Path Forward now! High five!! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. AND SO GRATEFUL FOR THAT

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