So the moment I feel great...

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#1 Aug 19 - 3PM
courtneyj
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So the moment I feel great...

Life is going really well. I just posted my thoughts to the message board and that alone curbed any thought of him. We havent spoken in three weeks. Throughout the course of this break-up he has always called at least within two weeks. I have been happy, truely happy with my life. I have met some great people here in Chicago. Meeting guys, not really interested in getting serious just having fun!!

Immediately after I posted my message about an hour ago, He called on my work number. I picked up, not knowing it was him, listened to him speak about some bag he gave is ex wife my friend to give to me, of which i knew about.

I asked if that was it and then hung up. He proceeded to call 6 more times and leave three voicemails, all which have been deleted. Keep in mind, this is a man that is moving in with a woman, he was dating three days after he ended a four year relationship and engagement with me.

Ugg, he is such scum. I know I can never be in a room with him. I dispise him.

Aug 20 - 12PM
dolce (not verified)
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Good for you!

Good for you, Courtney! You sound strong! Keep it up. You are a great inspiration for us.
Aug 19 - 7PM
quietude (not verified)
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courtney

Good for you! Way to handle that intrusive call. This happened to me a couple of months back...the little bugger caught me off guard at work. It was surreal, I just froze...ended the call quickly, and now I pre-screen calls the best I can. Unfortunately, we're all supposed to try to answer the phone as a general rule. He hasn't tried it again, if he does I'll be better prepared to go 'click'.
Aug 19 - 6PM
Barbara (not verified)
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bravo!

You handled that PERFECTLY!!! As you can see - NO CONTACT is the best 'last word' ever!! Anything else will be used against you, twisted and would make NO DIFFERENCE to these inhuman cretins anyway. BRAVO! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone