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So Damn proud of myself!!!!!

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#1 Oct 19 - 9AM
needing2know
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So Damn proud of myself!!!!!

Well as you guys know I ALWAYS went after my ex! Well I MADE IT TO THE 3 MONTH MARK!!!! I DID IT! Never in a million years did I think I could do it, but thanks to my support here I DID DO IT! Thank YOU so much! No word from that weasel either! And thats ok with me lol makes this NC that much more easier lol Have a wonderful day!

Oct 19 - 4PM
peanutbutterfrogs
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:)

Just smiled from ear to ear when I read your post. Keep recovering, you have so much to offer the empathetic world. *hugs*
Oct 19 - 4PM (Reply to #23)
needing2know
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peanutbutterfrogs

Love the name lol Keep smiling it makes people wonder what you have been up to lol
Oct 19 - 1PM
uk lady
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Well done

You rock and many more NC free months to come. Dee x
Oct 19 - 1PM
Unfreakinreal
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Awesome, awesome,

Awesome, awesome, awesome!!!!!! Way to go my DLB friend ! Xoxoxo
Oct 19 - 1PM (Reply to #20)
needing2know
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Unfreakinreal

Thank YOU! My DLB!
Oct 19 - 12PM
Done sourcing
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Congrats, N2K, that is

Congrats, N2K, that is awesome that you are moving forward and being such a positive example for the rest of us. Go out and order a pizza, and tell them to hold the weasel, lol! ds
Oct 19 - 12PM (Reply to #18)
needing2know
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DS

LMAO NO MORE WEASEL FOR ME! And Thank You! Thank all of you, you are all so wonderful and so supportive! I LOVE YOU ALL!! AND YES THE LOVE IS REAL!!!!!
Oct 19 - 12PM
ssm
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INSPIRATION!!!!

Congrats on your 3 month mark of total freedom! Doesnt it feel great
Oct 19 - 12PM (Reply to #16)
needing2know
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ssm

You will get here too! And good job on day 6, it may not seem like much but it really is! I remember those real early days not weeks but days, I cried all day long, but it really does get better for you and yes the black cloud ( I know what that is) is gone! it's like the house is warm and bright again! Yes power to us! Hang in there baby! lol
Oct 19 - 11AM
ally2375
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Wow, N2K

This is such good news! Three months is big! You should be very proud of yourself. Congratulations and thanks for sharing!
Oct 19 - 11AM
spinning
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n2K, you ROCK!

I am so proud of you. What a milestone!!! Great things are in store for you. Keep the positive energy rolling. Outstanding work! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. AND IT FEELS GREAT!

spinning

Oct 19 - 10AM
onwithmylife
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needing2 know

you should be VERY proud of yourself, I remember when I was 3 months it was a nightmare, did not have this site or info as to what the man was , so was still struggling terrible and sought therapy for some answers. It makes such a difference with all the information out there nowadays tor realize these men could not care if we were dead or alive! Congrats again...it is an incredible amount of self discipline but pays off in the end........
Oct 19 - 10AM
Syren66 (not verified)
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Isn't reaching these

Isn't reaching these milestones just amazingly empowering? SO SO SO SO proud of you! This is one of the hardest things we will ever go through and the self-discipline it takes to weather this storm with dignity left in tact is almost insurmountable. Look at this as a HUGE victory for you! xoxo
Oct 19 - 10AM (Reply to #10)
needing2know
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Syren 66

Yes reaching this milestone is amazing! and empowering, not only that but it shows him I DON"T WANT OR NEED HIS BS! I AM DONE lol Self discipline is hard, but it can be done, just have to RE TRAIN your brain. Thank YOU!
Oct 19 - 10AM (Reply to #11)
Syren66 (not verified)
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He doesn't care...never did.

He doesn't care...never did. That's the next realization and release of another set of shackles he applied early on. :D
Oct 19 - 10AM
la.luna
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Congrats!

That is AWESOME! We are all rejoicing with you! Thanks for being an inspiration :)!
Oct 19 - 10AM (Reply to #8)
needing2know
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la luna

Thank you! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! IT IS SO WORTH NC, will never cave again! I want NOTHING to do with him, my kids are so glad he is gone, my kids were goofing off last night having a good time and they looked at me and said if Narc boy was here we would be getting yelled ta right now, I told them well he will never set foot in this house again and it's ok to be yourselves!
Oct 19 - 9AM
Winter
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Wow, congrats!

You took your power back. The rewards of NC are fantastic! Emotional freedom, sense of wellbeing, joy and hapiness. All this is waiting for you sweetheart. Love Winter
Oct 19 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
needing2know
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winter

I could NOT have done this without you all! Thank you! Yes I took back MY power, I feel so so much better, I wish everyone could feel this feeling,they would fight even harder with staying NC! It is AWESOME to be here in this peaceful place!
Oct 19 - 9AM
Sea
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N2K you rock!

Well done!! I will be at 3 months mark in 1.5 weeks looking forward :)
Oct 19 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
needing2know
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sea

WE ALL ROCK, WHY????? BECAUSE WE DON'T NEED THEM!!! or their bullshit! Congrats to you too!Keep going!
Oct 19 - 9AM
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needing2know

I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TOO..... i know how much will power this has taken, and your strenght is awesome....WELL DONE !!!!!!!
Oct 19 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
needing2know
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used

it has been hard as hell!! I always went after him, 7 yrs was a long time, I know some here were in in longer, but the will power it takes is unreal! But I did it and will continue on. Like I said before I WILL BREAK HIM LIKE A BAD HABIT! lol