Six months of no contact
Six months of no contact
It was six months ago today, on the summer solstice, when I asked my ex if we could please try again, that he was the love of my life (gag), and that I would trust him if he would please just give me another chance.
To recap, in six years he had broken up with me six times, all of out the blue, and all for bullshit reasons. He's a narcissistic transgender-wannabe momma's boy.
At any rate, he wrote this looong self-involved email, and basically said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore, and that while he missed having a girlfriend, he wasn't sure I was what he wanted anymore.
That did it. I never replied to that message, and sent a very short, curt reply to the bait email he sent a few days later. When he joined Facebook that same day, I blocked his ass.
I can honestly say I was COMPLETELY over him in less than three months. I maintained absolutely no contact, and continue to maintain it now. If he ever contacted me again - and I think he's too scared to - I would absolutely ream him.
So on this, the winter solstice, I just want to thank God and all my gifts of strength and determination for getting me through this. It has been a HARD year, and not just because of my ex, but I got through every single struggle, and I'm still alive, and I'm really content and joyous.
I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas and a life-changing new year.
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Awesome post,
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I am so happy for you...I've
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Yes, I agree. What I don't
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