Silent treatment is the worst

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#1 May 22 - 11AM
Brave
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Silent treatment is the worst

Hey all :) hope everyone is well, I've noticed a few new members on the forum that are early NC, horrible isn't it, I'm in the same boat but I hope you are all staying strong...

Anyway I'm going to be honest and I hope it puts any other fresh NC'ers off contacting their exes, I was doing well, I'd made it to 10 days, even changed my number but then I cracked and sent the following message last Thursday:
"Hi N, just wanted to apologise for how I handled things the other week, it wasn't really me, it's ok if you'd rather not reply, hope things are still coming along for you, take care, Rach X".
No response. nada. She also works at my gym, I'd considered changing but she's meant to be leaving next month, anyway I've tried braving it a couple of times and she's been there and it's been the you no longer exist/you're invisible/won't even look at you routine. My message is don't reach out, especially if you run the risk of being ignored. There is nothing worse than being made to feel you are insignificant or dead to the person you love (although not sure if its love or addiction), it isn't worth it. I've had to learn the hard way. I can be a silly girl sometimes, takes a while for the penny to drop with me, but if this experience can help others from making the same mistake then I hope it does because it stops you from getting over them and recovering. I've been trying to focus on my but this silent treatment has broken my heart, do not go there.

Stay strong peeps
Brave xxxxxxxxxxxx

May 22 - 7PM
True2me
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Brave

May 22 - 6PM
Journey
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Well Brave, sorry your heart

Journey on...

May 23 - 5AM (Reply to #18)
anasterism
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"Hi N, just wanted to

May 23 - 2AM (Reply to #16)
Brave
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Hey Journey :) Ohhhh I hate

May 23 - 8AM (Reply to #17)
talktothehand
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Brave

May 22 - 8PM (Reply to #15)
IncognitoBurrito
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Agreed

May 22 - 5PM
hope29
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Your doing brill brave!!!

May 22 - 12PM
Used
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My message is don't reach

May 22 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
Allesandra
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is the silent treatment

May 22 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
Brave
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I'd say it's when you

May 22 - 4PM (Reply to #8)
Allesandra
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Thx for clearing that up Brave

May 22 - 5PM (Reply to #9)
Brave
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Yes he's ignoring you then

May 22 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
Allesandra
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?

May 22 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
lessonlearned
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allesandra

May 22 - 5PM (Reply to #12)
Allesandra
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:(

May 22 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
Brave
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Yes you are right but not

May 22 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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Here's the bottom line lesson,

spinning

May 22 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Janie53
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Spinning

May 22 - 11AM
Brave
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*been trying to focus on