http://cherieburbach.suite101.com/are-you-dating-a-player-a26426
And then trust your gut or at least google your question if you still need further confirmation.
Dee x
I am concerned to see you asking this question. After all the posts advising you not to get involved with this guy...are you still rationalizing and justifying your behavior? Married or not, if he's a N he's bad news and you should run away from him, not towards him!
I guess with an n an hour into the date you could say so how long have you been divorced did you say? They lie so much and can't keep track they will think they told you that and screw up lol
He's not wearing a wedding ring and says he's single. LOL Sorry, that made me laugh because I'm still not even sure the N I was seeing was officially separated a year like he "said"... I don't believe anything he told me now.
When I was online dating in the past, I got into the habit of checking the court websites to make sure they were officially divorced, but it doesn't show weddings and separations.
I have read some articles that say if they don't have you come to their home, if they never make plans with you on the weekends, if they hang up quickly, etc. I'm sure there must be more checklist signs.
I know I'm not ready to date again yet because it is so depressing to know this is yet another thing to worry about when you meet a guy. Whatever happened to the good old days where your friend had a great single cousin they wanted you to meet? :) At least I can still dream; he wasn't able to kill that - ha. :)
The fact that you have noticed behaviors that make you think he is married... Is he... Secretive ? Sneeky? He Lies? Inconsistancies? Missing in action ?
These are the personality traits he is showing you, whether he is married or not. Do you really want a secretive sneeky inconsistant man who is gonna be missing in action all the time?
He is what he is, and "why" doesn't really matter. If he is those things because hes married than hes off limits. If he is those things because, well, just because he is, then hes a snake and hes gonna bite you.
Either way, he is those things (whatever they are) that you are seeing in him now... reasons don't matter.
Check this list out first
survivalist
I guess with an n an hour
Do you mean signs that an N is married?
Snake