Should you tell him he is a narcissist

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#1 Nov 29 - 9PM
CattyPeque
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Should you tell him he is a narcissist

During therapy I found out my husband might a narcissitic. He has a lot of the traits and after researching and all the things that have happened to us, my therapist confirmed he is a narcissist. During therapy, she mentioned I should not tell him he has this disorder. Most of the material she gave me to read was hidden from him... she said it will not be good for me...

He recognized he had a kind of problem but he said he does not want to solve it... now that we are not together, should I mention to his family the problem he has or should I say it to him... we are going through divorce right now and things are getting out of control...

Sometimes I wish I can tell him and that might make him look for some help... Any advice will be good...

Nov 30 - 2PM
Tigiangel
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Completely and utterly agree

Nov 30 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
Tigiangel
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An interesting thing.....

Nov 30 - 1PM
Goldie
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Do you think he does not already know?

Dec 5 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
thebigpayback
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right on, Goldie!so true!

Nov 29 - 10PM
CattyPeque
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Thanks

Nov 29 - 10PM
ItsFinallytime
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Hi CP and welcome. As Yana

Nov 29 - 9PM
yana
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Don't tell