"She is so Intelligent and Substantive...this is why I have introduced Daughter 11 to her"
"She is so Intelligent and Substantive...this is why I have introduced Daughter 11 to her"
Today in mediation, we continued with the issue why he insists on exposing daughter 11 to his new girlfriend...when we are not even divorced yet, and from daughter's perspective, he just left about 2 months ago.
After bringing it up last week, he threw a folder at me and the mediator had to have him leave the room because of the narc rage he exhibited for my temerity in bringing up that having daughter along on his dates was not good for her and why can't he just spend the days he has with her, alone with daughter, which is what SHE needs.
So after his sessions yesterday with his own psych (who apparently told him all is A-OK in bringing daughter along on his dates)and hte child therapist daughter will start going to next week, he happily confessed that both "agreed" there was not problem with this. I know for a fact that the child therapist did not tell this this. But...
OH yeah...and he said "I have asked daughter if she is bothered by going along (with us)....and she says "No daddy, its ok"....Well of course...She would tie herself to his car if it meant that she had to NOT see him. FUcker.
So...he brought it again today, and when I and mediator continued to ask him to refrain until daughter has a chance to see the therapist and get a read on her emotional state....he goes into his "reasoning" as to why he does it.
New woman is "so intelligent and substantive"....that she is NOT at all like the stereotypes one sees about "step parents and dates" from dads...and I think introducing her to this now prevents her from LOOKING at "me" in a negative way in that way.
The funny, sad and truly pathetic part of this is that I KNOW her. Have for years. She is NOT some intellectual or substantive woman...she inherited her money from parents, has never worked, created anything and lies by the pool, works out, goes to teh salon and dumps HER own kids off at her ex's whenever it is inconvenient.
The irony here....to be completely honest. I fact, I AM the intelleigent and substantive one. I am a substantial woman and have achieved many things in my life, built a beautiful "home" for my family, have many, many friends, shun shallowness, and am loved deeply by colleagues, friends and family dating back to my childhood.
Why do you think he would propose this as his "reason"....its odd if you knew her, and if you knew him...who actually was resentful and envious of my "successes"....
Why NOW would he need to propose that this woman is actually "not" as she is at all? Very intersting to me....
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