Revenge? Justice?

In the early stages, I thought of a few juicy plots...but I never acted on them...I figured he'd just get high off of it and it wasn't worth my lowering myself. Somehow no matter what they always walk away unscathed. Even if the plot panned out according to plan, he'd just be able to capitalize on his victim role and it would cement the rumors of my "insanity" Pffft, he's a turd...

Another thought...since narcs really REALLY dislike being ignored. NC is probably the best revenge. :P JUUUUUST sayin'! ;) lol

Leaving him wasn't about revenge...but in seeing how frantic he became over it...I guess it was. I say that with dismay. I never wanted to hurt him. I just wanted a normal relationship. :=(

Hell YES! I want revenge and justice so bad I can't see straight! I obsess about it! I don't want him anymore but I want him to pay! I watched The First Wives Club last week and was laughing my ass off at the things they did!

Most likey everyone here wants or wanted that. I think the further down the road you get in recovery....the less important "revenge" becomes.....not because you don't believe they deserve what's coming to them,....but because you really start to get that YOU cannot take revenge on them. Anything you do to them will be twisted and manipulated to their advantage. You really can't hurt them because they have no REAL feelings. Anything you do to them, will not make them stop and think "geez, i really treated her like shit." And if you do something that does affect their life....they'll just call you crazy anyway. It is a no win situation. I believe justice will be served.....but I think you have to let Karma handle it and not focus on revenge. Focus on your recovery.