Realizing alot of it is about who has control...
Realizing alot of it is about who has control...
Sorry but it is...I really feel alot of it stems from who feels in control,who feels out of it,how to take it back,not lose it..keep at it..
I realize lately that my anxiety is when he is possibly having fun with the OW,possibly going out with mutual friends because he can.My lack of control thereof is where I lose it...
The other important thing is I can tell he is this way too.When he wasn"t allowed at our mutual friend's party because I was going.He said a nasty FB message on Thanksgiving stating"Happy thanksgiving to those who deserve it,to everyone else go ^&&%$##$*(%^%^#$#%*$(^%(%^$^$(" enjoy".....ONe doesn't have to be a rocket scientist to believe it was directed at me....
Anyhow his lack of control about ebing able to go to the party and lack of control on what I was doing on the holiday made him angry.....Just like it made me upset the day before the holiday when I woke up crying...
I think I've been delaing with a person who doesn't like to lose control of the situation,neither do I I guess..That's why we blocked,unblocked,blocked on facebook...Like who is leaving who,etc...
We are both hard-heads...Pretty sad it couldn't work with someone who can't back down and thinks that it is a weakness to do such a thing...It's all out of our control anyway..
Hahah michele..VNS....I know
Can we discuss his FB
Shortway how Naive
OMG you freaking crack me
Shortway
Ben Dova
I think this is excellent
Yep..quite ironic that the
remember if at all
Yes ONwithmylife Not sure if
Yep..Even when I would do
I am feeling weird about this
My brain is mush today
He felt outta control only
Shortway
Hmmm?
It's about control from day one with a narc
Believe in yourself!
Terri