The real other woman called me
The real other woman called me
Ironically, she has suspected something was up for the PAST THREE YEARS THEY HAVE BEEN DATING. THREE YEARS! So here's the disgusting deal:
They met at a party four years ago because her sister is the next door neighbor of the narc's best friend. She is fifty eight and has never been married or had any children. She said the narc was "smitten with her" for a year before she agreed to go out with him. The whole time, he and I were together and THE NARC'S BEST FRIEND WAS TRYING TO GET HER TO GO OUT WITH THE NARC BEHIND MY BACK! She lives in California (Yup, found the California girl) and HAS COME TO CHICAGO TWICE A MONTH FOR THREE YEARS TO SEE THE NARC AND HIS CHILD AND THE NARC'S FAMILY! THE EVIL BABYSITTER IS HER BEST FRIEND! Apparently, she has asked the babysitter many times if the narc was seeing someone else, and she said no, all the while watching the child so the narc and I could go out or he could come over and screw. Now, get this: she has never been in his house, not once! She stays in a hotel downtown which she pays for and the narc and his kid and his brother come down and hang out, swim in the pool, and she takes them out for dinner! He tells her his house is a mess! She goes to the child's baseball games, has picked him up at school, went to his kindergarten graduation, and the narc asked her to be his GODMOTHER (which he weasled out of last minute; he baptized him behind HER back, too). At least once night every time she's here, he leaves the child to spend the night with her and goes out--guess where? Yup, we lined up all of the weekends we could remember to discover that she had been babysitting his kid while he was f*cking me. But it gets better! She gave him five thousand dollars to buy furniture for his house because he said he was broke, and she gave him a check last week to fix his car! She also sends him a check every month because he says he can't afford to support the child! Rememeber the first year the child was here and they left on his birthday without telling me he was leaving? They were having a bowling party with the OW and stayed in her hotel all weekend! This past birthday, she ordered them a limo which picked them up and took them to the circus and then to a waterpark hotel for the weekend WITH THE NARC'S WHOLE FAMILY!
But wait, there's more!
The first day the child was here, they had already been dating for an entire year. He and the narc came over to dinner and the narc brought a beautiful tray of cookies with a bow around it. He said some woman at work was trying to start a catering business and he bought them from her to help her out. Guess who had made the cookies? The OW! Apparently she sends a care package every week with expensive clothes, shoes, homemade baked goods, and MONEY FOR THE CHILD'S SAVINGS ACCOUNT! I remember that everytime I went to he and his brother's house there were little gifts on the steps: cookies, brownies, candy, wine. And the photos all over the narc's house? Guess who took them all? Yup!
She has taken him to the doctor for all sorts of tests, he quit smoking last month apparently for her, she talks to him on the phone several times a day, calls to say good morning and good night every day, and actually has intercourse with her, unlike me.
She is like a sister to the narc's brother, who also watches the child so the narc can come over or we can go out. The two faced, lying, evil psychos! All of them!
We went through every holiday the past three years and discovered that they were all perfectly lined up with the narc's work excuses: when he spent Christmas with one of us he told the other one he had to work, etc. She gave him the shirts he gave me to sleep in!
I was so amazed to find this out. I really thought this california woman was a one-time thing. It's incredible.
I was so amazed this morning, it didn't really sink in until this evening, and I've been lying awake all night. I almost have symptoms like physical shock. I am shaking, vomiting, chills, and my whole body aches like I got hit by a truck. I knew he was a liar, but to find out that his family was having an intimate relationship with another woman all of this time, that she was the child's mother all along, that she has been around him at school and the park, a block away from me: the balls!