Quietude, this is for you- my final straw thread that I posted a few months back

I am humiliated that I shared my life with a man who could treat me this way but here it goes.
Long story short: we were close friends in college, didn’t see each other for about ten years, he moved abroad and contacted me when he was in town, we met and dated long distance for a year, something didn’t feel right, I did research and realized he had Narc. tendencies (inflated sense of entitlement, inability to empathize, constant need for attention, always turning things around on me, changing the subject when I brought up how he hurt me, caught him in little lies, his needs always came first, never really trusted him, ect) I ignored it for a while (probably bc we were long distance so he wasn’t close enough to devalue and discard me) and then came my breaking point.
We broke up in Feb. and I saw him when he came into town in May and had a few good nights together. On a Sat. night I went out with my friends and he went out with his and after not hearing from him, I called him at his hotel at 3:00am and he answered and when he heard my voice he said “let me call you back” I said no, and he said it again and hung up on me. I called back the hotel and he didn’t answer. He finally called me two hours later and I was sleeping. I called him in the am and freaked on him and you know what he said to me?... that he was there with his guy friend and a girl they met and he was drunk and should have spoken to me but didn’t and that he was sorry and that he didn’t do anything with that other woman. He further tried to distort the truth and ask if I heard the music playing in the background. He totally was trying to distort the reality, I know what I heard when he answered, it was dead silent. Even if I believed that BS story that his guy friend was there, he should have excused himself to call me. He swore that nothing happened with the girl but his story doesn’t add up and fine, let’s say nothing happened with her- it was important to him to act as the single cool guy than to talk to me. A GUY THAT CARES ABOUT YOU DOES NOT DO THAT TO YOU.
That was the final straw and I am done. EVEN ON HIS BEST DAY HE WAS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME.