Question--anyone here have an ex N who ''hoovered'' to get revenge on you?
Question--anyone here have an ex N who ''hoovered'' to get revenge on you?
This is what I think my recent ex is doing. I don't even know if one would classify this as ''hoovering,'' but what he's been doing is baiting me. Maybe that's a better word for it? He had said numerous times...''don't contact me anymore,'' after he is 'nice' and then I text...(this happened two weeks ago) and then, he blasted me...and told me he didn't care if I died. Then, he'll be nice on the website...he's throwing out some 'bait' but I'm not logging in and biting this time. ;)
So...just curious if anyone on here has ever had an ex ''hoover'' or ''bait them'' but he/she weren't interested in getting back with you? They just wanted revenge, or to torment you for breaking up with them. I broke things off, so ever since then, he's been trying to regain control, is my only guess.
As an aside...I just wanted to say that I'm doing really well. Getting more and more indifferent, daily. :=) Thanks to you all, and this amazing site, I have come a long way, I'd say.
Looking forward to your stories, if you have any like mine above, to share.
Him wanting to hurt you would imply he thought of you as human
all about the money and control
Oh, and just to clarify. I'm
d40
Hunter...did you break things
D40
if he sees that he can't win
that's it. he wants a
Deidre
Mean by Taylor Swift