A question about his wife
A question about his wife
I don't think anyone will know the answer to this, unless J's wife is here, but I'll ask anyway. Why does she stay with him? I know for a fact that she knows he cheats, because she actually confronted me via email. It was after a 3-month d&d, and at that time he and I were communicating only by phone. I told her I wasn't having an affair with him. She told me she didn't trust him, and he gave her reason to. I was pretty sure, even though he denied it, that I wasn't the first. He and his wife had been married for 13 years when he and I started, and we lasted 9 years. The way he described her, she sounded like an awful, selfish, controlling and self-absorbed person. Now, from what I've learned here, maybe that was projection? I have to believe she loves him and values her marriage, and I actually wrote that in the email to her. She never responded to that. He makes good money, he's handsome, funny, intelligent and charasmatic. I used to be very jealous of her, because she had what I wanted. Now, I kind of feel sorry for her. Does he to do her what he did to me? Or could it be worse? Or is it possible he's only a Narc to me?
One of the hardest things
I will tell you why I stayed as long as I stayed.
Well that's what I said to a
Yes...it's a whole other
yep
"The way he described her,
It's worse for her. He
im always fine.. How is the
Does he to do her what he did
I have to apologize,
There is zero need to apologize.
I dont' see anyone hurt or judging you in this post
cleareyes
What needs to be understood
Bingo! Yep as I have stated
A narc can't be a narc to
No maybe about it
Extraordinary post! Spot on!
I do have the answer.. The
Good point, Hunter
They lie about OW/Wife. MAJOR RED FLAG when a man trashes his..
This describes the N/P I was entangled with.
Scary isn't it...how they are
Accidental Double post