the psychonarc is in liver failure..........

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#1 Apr 13 - 3PM

Anonymous (not verified)

the psychonarc is in liver failure..........

and kidney failure.......going to hospice....don't know how much longer he has left......not much, i think.....doctor said it was the worst jaundice he'd ever seen in his career.....
still treating me like shit......forever and always.....

#2 Apr 15 - 11PM

TexN (not verified)

Any updates???

Any news???

#3 Apr 16 - 6AM (Reply to #25)

Barbara (not verified)

no news yet

None - she may be home sleeping... I will call her later today ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller

#4 Apr 16 - 12PM (Reply to #26)

wallaby (not verified)

News on NarcNarc's Psychopath

I just spoke with NN who is going out of her mind. The PsychoN has, against all odds, apparently had "some recovery". They continue to give him dialysis daily and are going to move him to a care facility where she was told he could possibly linger for "months". He does not have life insurance as she had hoped, nor medical insurance so all the hundred of thousands of dollars spent on him and going to be spent on him are being paid for by the govt. Yet NarcNarc can't even get a dime for food or in services for her medical needs or PTSD or legal help. She's really struggling with the terrible injustice of this horrendous situation. ALso her dryer just broke so she has not way to dry her clothes nor the towels that one of her older dogs must pee on as he is disabled. It's a very confusing situation as they say he is still in liver and renal failure. By all accounts he should be dead. Apparently they had orders to take him from ICU to hospice today if renal function was not restored and yet, even though it is not, they are not taking him to hospice but to a long term care facility where he can have his every need catered to, while NN tries to get food for her dogs and herself. In his "death bed" he has also run a con where he has been telling his family members how horrible NN is and how she has abused him and getting them to feel badly for him so he can come stay with them when he gets out. Thank God NN has a sense of humor as she actually laughed about him feathering his nest and running cons from his death bed. Which apparently is an "almost but not quite yet" death bed. She, of course, is now regretting taking him to the hospital which saved his life. He also seems to have turned the hospital staff against her so now they have a cold and distant attitude towards her. God knows what he said. I think she would appreciate members who have some knowledge of medical issues weighing in as she can't really tell how long he is good for or what level of recovery to expect. They did say he was not eligible for a transplant - thank god. I also think, and will leave this up to Barbara to orchestrate or weigh in, but it would be great if those of us who can help by her another dryer.

#5 Apr 14 - 7AM

narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)

the dying psychonarc

i left yesterday....so i don't know how he reacted when they told him he was dying....i imagine not well......i'm going back today...i want to find out about a DNR...hopefully he is so out of his head that i will sign one for him.....he did allow me access to his all information about him yesterday which was shoking in itself.....i want to find out how long they expect him to live.... i do want to see him one more time...to see how he's taking it...to see how the tyrant who kept me and my pets at his mercy or 17 years is liking being at the mercy of a dialysis machine and some surly nurses........ i also want to swipe his keys...i stole a key to his rathole from him the other day...now i want a key to any mailboxes he has so i can see if i've been getting mail i need to know about..... for so many years everyone watched him consume unimagineable amounts of vodka...and no one could ever believe it was having no effect on him...although that seemed to be the case....he was never grateful for his luck...and kept pushing the envelope.... a few weeks ago i consulted again with the same psychic who found my stolen car and him over two years ago..and she told me that he was sick...low intestinal problems...constant diarrhea....which is EXACTLY what he was having.....so told me that she saw him being 'locked up' somewhere...for 'just shy of one month.27 or 28 days'..and that it would be my chance to finally get some closure......i assumed JAIL..not HOSPICE...... but no matter what heppens to him now....he has already murdered BEN..and destroyed my life....so he already won.....

#6 Apr 14 - 6AM

narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)

closure..............

i have prayed for years...and many people, including Rache, have been praying with me.....for me to see the monster who murdered my darlng BEN get his comeuppance..with my own eyes.... and now it's happened... Rache said to me last night that this was the perfect act of God....the psychopath had no one left to call but the person he had treated worst in all this world..... i went and got him...and took him to the hospital..because i am better than him...and i wanted him to know it....and i wanted to watch him lay there....the color of a squash...while they told him that his beloved VODKA had killed him...... so now he's laying there....with no on to blame...except himself and what he betrayed everyone in his entire life for....VODKA.... i wonder if he's still thirsty for it...

#7 Apr 13 - 10PM

moving on

kind of confused...

why are you helping him? this is the perfect opportunity for you to D&D his ass like he did you except he's going str8 to hell. Shouldn't you still be NC?

#8 Apr 13 - 10PM

wallaby (not verified)

Hallafreakingluleah

If anyone offers him a new liver or kidneys be sure to tell them how well he treated the last set. They wont give active alcoholics new organs (although our nasty N parish priest got himself a new kidney even with drinking quarts of liquor daily - got a good Catholic donor to throw away a kidney on him). ALthough with no insurance and once in hospice it seems unlikely even his most charming holy snakyness could steal two sets of new organs for a double transplant. Liver failure can take a while - kidney failure without dialysis takes only days I think? Ladies anyone know how long? Do you have to go back? Can you just ditch him completely now? Not see him again? Or do you need to be there for some reason? It has got to be awful - even though he is rightly suffering and what we all want for him to be gone - you are still human and it must be tough to endure. How are you holding up with his suffering - seeing it in person?

#9 Apr 13 - 6PM

gullablegull (not verified)

I think he ought to have

I think he ought to have some more rock gut Vodka! That would make him feel better don't you think? heehee OR you could get some and drink it in front of him? Just don't get him any lemons. They're good for the liver.

#10 Apr 13 - 5PM

Monica

God help me...but I am jealous

I wish it were my xN/P that was leaving this earth. Someone else said it...not even hell wants him. But, seriously, I wish it were mine and that I would be totally rid of him before long. God help me...but I really do wish that mine were on his way out. And I have never, EVER wished that on anyone in my entire life. Never.

#11 Apr 13 - 10PM (Reply to #18)

enoughalready

monica

Gosh, I have wished the same for my XN too. I know he'll be miserable for the rest of his life and knowing that is enough for me!

#12 Apr 13 - 5PM

sanctuary

Hang in there!

I used to be a hospice volunteer, if they gave him to me I'd quit!! But it's true they're giving him 6 months or less, hopefully way less!! Hospice is governed and paid for by Medicare. They offer a lot of services for patients and their families so maybe you can get a little help through them. They also don't do anything to cure the patient once they're on Hospice, only pain management, daily care, etc. Kidney and liver failure should be a rapid end without much intervention!! It'll be day to celebrate when it finally happens!!

#13 Apr 13 - 5PM

TexN (not verified)

Anybody dead yet???

I can't believe he is still being an ass to you when he has one foot in the ground! You can use that food stamp card if you know the pin number. If they question you just say he's too ill to go for himself. Although i don't think you can buy pet food with the card, can you? Won't be long before ur exN will take a "permanent dirt nap". Oh my gosh, I didn't just say that! Grossot said it ! Lol!

#14 Apr 13 - 4PM

narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)

evil to the bone..........

he gets food stamps....i asked him today if i could have that food stamp card to get some food for the dogs and cats...and he said.....'NO...that's MINE...'....

#15 Apr 13 - 5PM (Reply to #14)

Barbara (not verified)

just take it

take it from him... when he's passed out be sure to tell the doctor about him asking about his dead daddy as if dad was still alive... that oughta get the pall of him being a psych-case going ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals

#16 Apr 13 - 4PM

narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)

dialysis

they put him in intensive care....on dialysis...there at the end...right before i left...he was starting to look scared...he said to the doctor...'i quit drinking a month ago'.....like that was gonna cure it all....

#17 Apr 13 - 10PM (Reply to #12)

enoughalready

narcnarc

So sorry you are going through this. It must be hard to have loved this person who still treats you terribly despite your help. They always say " I didn't do anything wrong". Having kidney failure is miserable and these patients really suffer.

#18 Apr 13 - 5PM (Reply to #11)

Barbara (not verified)

if he quit drinking ever...

then I'm the flippin TOOTH FAIRY ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals

#19 Apr 13 - 4PM

narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)

no insurance

his insurance has lapsed.....i had to leave to check on the dogs and cats...i don't know what they told him....once he realizes what hospice is...i don't think he'll live long.... he was still telling me today that he's done nothing wrong...he called me...and i went over there.hating him like i do....and took him to the hospital...ahd he was treating me like shit the whole way there.....and the whole time i was there......

#20 Apr 13 - 4PM (Reply to #9)

loveofmylife

you are earning your wings

hang in there.

#21 Apr 13 - 4PM (Reply to #7)

woundedsoul36

wow, no insurance..that

wow, no insurance..that means the minimal can only be done..no specialists...no dialysis.. My guess is like 3-4 months before he leaves this world... a hospital can only do so much...

#22 Apr 13 - 5PM (Reply to #8)

Barbara (not verified)

dirt nap

he's never getting out of the hospital... let him know Ben's coming for him! once he dies - get his brain to Dr. Hare - then dump his ashes in the dumpster behind the liquor store ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals

#23 Apr 13 - 3PM

quietude (not verified)

holy cow...

Liver AND kidneys?? He won't be long for this world...geeze, did the Dr. give you an estimate?? Sorry you're still having to deal with the abuse, even at a time like this. Pretty soon, no more.

#24 Apr 13 - 3PM

Barbara (not verified)

boo hoo

go to his place and collect all the paperwork you can... get on his insurance QUICK! and get diagnosed with fibro so you can apply for benefits... I hope he's gone SOON! ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals

#25 Apr 13 - 4PM (Reply to #2)

grossot

not dead yet?

Damn! I told you - Hell don't even want him! Who doesn't know what hospice is? Is he delerious? I hope he goes soon. It will be a celebration for all of us. Perhaps we could declare it a national holiday and celebrate annually. God I hope mine dies before me. Maybe he'll off himself. http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled

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#26 Apr 13 - 4PM (Reply to #3)

windycitygirl

when a family member had hospice

they (hospice) told me that they only call hospice with patients with 6 months or less to live

#27 Apr 13 - 5PM (Reply to #4)

Barbara (not verified)

narcnarc

6 more minutes is too much for that jerk... go to his place - take what you can pawn... he's never going home. ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals

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