Pray for Jail Time for Narc

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#1 Nov 18 - 9PM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Pray for Jail Time for Narc

The Narc can't ever seem to keep up with child support, even though he brags about taking home over $1,000 a week. We went to court on Sept.18th and he was court ordered to pay the $5,600 of back child support by Nov.2nd. My "brilliant lawyer" (being a smart ass here) told him to come up with a substancual amount and he could request a 45 day extension. That's all he needed to hear! (You all know how the N's think!) A couple of days before Nov. 2nd, he was begging family members to loan him $1,500. On that day, he showed up with the $2,000. (Mind you, he himself only came up with $500 of it after 2 mths!)From Sept.18th to Nov.2nd, he didn't keep up with his current child support payment so in reality, all the son of a bitch did was pay what was asked of him and failed to keep up with his monthly obligation! (He just switched the money from the current due to the past due!)I told my lawyer I wanted him to request a warrant for his arrest for contempt of court. OF ALL FREAKIN TIMES, the Narc sent two payments back to back of $200 each! Now it looks as if he's attempting to get caught up! Shit, Shit, Shit! I want him in jail! I don't want the money, I want him behind bars! I would get more satisfaction in that! He is sooo hyper, he would literally go ballistic if he had to spend time behind bars! He would be like a rat in a cage. My lawyer said he was going to file a petition for a warrant, but I'm thinking the N is going to fool the judge and "show that he's trying". What the judge doesn't know is, he changes jobs just about every month! I wish just once, JUST ONCE, he would have to pay for what he's done! This isn't even counting the medical bills and attorney fees he owes ($1,200). Its bad enough they poop on us and leave behind destruction, and then they get away with not keeping up with their child support obligation! Everyone keep your fingers cross that he gets picked up and spends Christmas in jail! (I know I sound ugly, but I'm sick and tired of him never ever having to pay for all the wrong that he does to people! I'll keep you all posted if he gets picked up. (For some reason, I think he will get out of this like he does everything else! :(

Nov 18 - 10PM
grossot
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I'll pray with you

But even jail time won't make him learn.... In true Narcissistic fashion, it will be your fault NaC< if he goes to jail.... But, Praying I can do!!!! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
Nov 18 - 10PM (Reply to #6)
NanC (not verified)
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Thanks, grossot

I will be shocked if it actually happens though. Why do they get away with so much in their lives? I think that's one of the reasons they keep doing what they're doing. They never have consequences. Narc texted me wanting to talk to our daughter tonight. Two months after we went to court to set visitations, he still can't make the time to see her! He said, "can you get my little angel to call me?" Shut up, stupid! I didn't even tell her. All it does is get her upset (she's 6) and then he won't call for another 2 or 3 weeks...
Nov 18 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
quietude (not verified)
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praying

Praying he keeps up with the support payments, since you really need and should have that, with the threat of jail over his head 'at any time' he doesn't pay up. Some of these guys are such slime-balls. Part of what I do in my job is report new employees to the state. As soon as some of them are 'found' as in garnishing wages, or for medical support, they quit.
Nov 18 - 10PM (Reply to #3)
NanC (not verified)
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quietude

Yeah, I'm an HR Administrator myself so as soon as we hire someone who owes child support, I immediately fill out the paperwork and start deducting from their checks. It just floors me how they think they don't have to support their children. The mothers always have to carry all the burden. It is exhausting...
Nov 18 - 11PM (Reply to #4)
Barbara (not verified)
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deadbeat Narc

he'll screw up sooner or later. Don't worry ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
Nov 19 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
NanC (not verified)
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Thanks for yall's responses...

You are right about that! He can never follow through with anything! He will drop the ball sooner or later...Geez Barbara, do you know my exN personally??? lol! (I know, they are all the same).