Police say he is a stalker...

I was at the movies witha friend Friday night and had me phone on silent. When I checked my phone afterward I had 4 missed calls. One from my son, one from my brother and two from a number I did not recognize. I had a bad feeling about that number. The internet told me it was a cell number from my area and xNs cell company. The next morning I had my adult son call the number to see who it was. It went to voice mail and my son asked me "Who is …………" It was xNs youngest son...about 14 years old...whom I had never even met except in passing once for 5 seconds. He would not have my cell number.

I sent my xN and his boss a cease and desist order a few weeks ago because xN knew his personal phone was blocked so he used his work cell to call, text and harass me. He had been told many times before the C and D to stop contacting me. I had to get caller ID at work and report him to my bosses. His car is very unusual and I have seen a car like his drive past my house at night when I could not see the driver.

I called the police yesterday and the officer believes my xN is stalking me because it has been almost a year since we broke up and I have told him many times to stop contacting me. The officer said they were very concerned about the situation. They were amazed by the documentation I kept of texts, call records, the letters I have sent him telling him to stop contacting me. They want me to file charges.

This has to stop. We found out a week ago that my mom has terminal cancer and has only weeks or months to live. I have spent the last week in a blur of hospitals, nursing homes, paperwork, getting her house ready to sell, taking my own off the market for now, talking with doctors and nurses and hospice and insurance companies and attorneys. I need to put an end to xNs games asap.