playing the revenge game with him
playing the revenge game with him
lots of random thoughts today. mostly wishing i knew how he feels/felt. wanting alot of answers today that i know i will never get.
he told me that i always play the victim role when i tried to tell him how his actions hurt me. he always said...you act like you have never hurt me!
i hate that he has never understood where i was coming from.
i had a big problem with wanting revenge in our relationship. i always wanted to do something to hurt him as much as he hurt me hoping that it would wake him up. it never worked but only gave him more of an excuse to do all the terrible things he did.
what does that say about me?
i know that he looks at my fb. i posted pics of a man on there and changed my status to engaged hoping to hurt him even now. i want him to think that i am not hurt or phased by anything he has done and that i have moved on too. why do i do things like this?
i get into these moods like i dont care and dont want to play games but then i do it. i feel childish for acting that way but then im like screw it, i hope it does hurt him, and then i go to feeling guilty....crazy, vicious cirlce.
thoughts???
Interesting route of revenge
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