Oh, I was the "woman of his dreams". He said that, being an actor, he always had an idea of what the person he was going to marry was supposed to look like. His wife, who he was leaving, did not fit the bill. I of course did.
But then He would say things like "when I met you you were super hot. Now you're just hot.". "everyone likes a firm butt. Yours used to be firmer". I had ti hear about all the celebrities that he thought were hot, and even about how he fantasized about them. He would post about them on Facebook!
This is beside the point, but I am in very good shape, I work out every day(well, I did, bit have been having a hard time getting back into it with how I am feeling about myself this last month) and he is quite overweight, diabetic, and does not care about his body.
Obsessed with Julianne Moore in "End of the Affair" Also told me a zillion times how the exGF was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. Also told me, before I knew about the OW, that he did not even think she was cute.
Crazy freak loser
My XN BF was infatuated with Zoe DeChanel. He always let me know it too. Of course if I would comment on George Clooney or some other hottie, that guy was an asshole... a jerk... and of course...stupid. What a little boy putz!
There were various actresses he had crushes on (he travels in those circles, and some of them he'd met) but right up until D&D he told me that *I* was perfect.
Mine said me, how I was at the start of the relationship..if only I would be like that again..
Yeah because you killed every bit of fun and worthiness and self esteem I had wanker..thats why I am not like that anymore!!!!
Best looking, best in bed, most intelligent girl etc.
Then he called me ugly, fat, like f'ing a corpse and thick.
Go figure..I smell some scrambled..
Oh yes I was told "youre so easy to wake up to" "you have a gorgeous face, amazing body and beautiful mind" "youre so funny, positive, happy" he asked me "are you human?" hed text me "im bragging about u to my friends" or "im so blessed to b w u" I was his ideal of "low maintenance" and "cheered him up when he was down" then all of a sudden I was "bald" and my low maintenance qualities that he used to brag about turned into me being uncomfortable calling him, being a bad communicator and not taking initiative!
Lol snowflake, our N's could be twins!
When we first got together, I was beautiful, smart, perfect and marriage material. Didn't take long before I was called fat, dumb, a prick, boring and not the girl for him. When he got a gf, he was telling her how i was perfect (to put her down). Then to put me down, he constantly told me how (another new gf) was perfect, the only one he'd marry, etc.
So glad I don't have to put up w/ that mind f***ery any more! Xx
Oh, I was the "woman of his
Yes
His perfect woman
Just me
Nope
Mine said me
Bahaha
Lol snowflake, our N's could
Peaches