People who saw them for what they were

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#1 Apr 17 - 8PM
Lookonthesunnyside
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People who saw them for what they were

Im wondering if your family/friends saw through your exN?

The first time my gramma met my ex he was over the top nice and I was happy with him at the time. He presented himself well and she said that he seemed nice and responsible. But she also said to my mom "I think that being seen with her makes him feel good about himself". And I thought hmm...maybe he seemed proud of me?? (No, it was all superficial).

The last time they met was a month before our split when I was miserable and exhausted. Both my gramma and my aunt told my mom that they sensed an immediate coldness from him. My aunt even told my mom that the second they were introduced she got a huge lurching feeling in her stomach. She said she guessed that she was sensing my unhappiness. OR she was actually picking up on something being very wrong with him, is my interpretation.

Also to note, my aunt and gramma are both very intuitive, sensitive, empathetic people. They are open and kind but both sensed something really off with him.

How many people sensed that something was 'off' with your ex?? Out of curiosity.

Apr 18 - 7AM
janemarie
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Everyone!!!!

Apr 18 - 7AM
RustyGal
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My dog

Apr 18 - 7AM
uncomfortablynumb
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My family lives 1500K away

Apr 18 - 6AM
julesuk
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Depended on who

Apr 18 - 2AM
Pumpkin
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Some of both

Pumpkin

Apr 18 - 1AM
no more an echo
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he was 'off' all right!

Apr 17 - 10PM
Breakingfree24
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Everyone noticed!

Apr 17 - 9PM
Sparrow
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I can count on one hand, the

Apr 17 - 9PM
NoNarcingZone
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His awkward silence

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"Soldier, don't confuse your rank with MY authority!"

Apr 17 - 9PM
freaked
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My folks were gaga about this

Apr 17 - 9PM
chris magan
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I had that eperience with a

Apr 17 - 9PM
rebuildingmysoul
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Let's put it this way... I

Apr 17 - 9PM
kimberly4398
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Most everyone I know.did but