Typical N Behavior?
Typical N Behavior?
Is this typical N behavior or did I just have a real peach?
Ex-N began telling me just a couple months into our "relationship" that he couldn't have a relationship because he was suddenly having a financial crisis that he needed to fix before he could think about settling down (sound familiar?). After several years of having a relationship in every way except telling other girls we had one (he would however tell any male that acted interested in my that he was my boyfriend) I once again ended it. He then entered a 2 year relationship with my complete opposite - and the exact opposite of what he said he wanted. During that time, I had a brief fling with one of his friends. When he found out he asked me not to date his friends and I respected that. Through the years that we couldn't have a relationship, though, he dated several of my coworkers and tried to date my cousin, I think. I actually got the blame and silent treatment from him for a long time when one of my coworkers wouldn't date him. And he is still friends with my brothers but he is so nasty to me (well, WAS so nasty - I will not talk to him now). It's like torture over and over. Is it intentional because it sure feels like it.
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he's a typical Narc