Typical N Behavior?

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#1 Sep 17 - 12AM
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Typical N Behavior?

Is this typical N behavior or did I just have a real peach?

Ex-N began telling me just a couple months into our "relationship" that he couldn't have a relationship because he was suddenly having a financial crisis that he needed to fix before he could think about settling down (sound familiar?). After several years of having a relationship in every way except telling other girls we had one (he would however tell any male that acted interested in my that he was my boyfriend) I once again ended it. He then entered a 2 year relationship with my complete opposite - and the exact opposite of what he said he wanted. During that time, I had a brief fling with one of his friends. When he found out he asked me not to date his friends and I respected that. Through the years that we couldn't have a relationship, though, he dated several of my coworkers and tried to date my cousin, I think. I actually got the blame and silent treatment from him for a long time when one of my coworkers wouldn't date him. And he is still friends with my brothers but he is so nasty to me (well, WAS so nasty - I will not talk to him now). It's like torture over and over. Is it intentional because it sure feels like it.

Sep 17 - 8AM
dolce (not verified)
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Trust your gut. Yes, it is intentional. Everything they do is intentional.
Sep 17 - 6AM
Barbara (not verified)
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he's a typical Narc

yup classic. Controlling Purposely confusing a drawn out D&D game playing http://www.lisaescott.com/2009/06/24/understanding-narcissists-cycle-idealizing-you-devaluing-demeaning-you http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/09/03/hurting-you-isnt-something-narcissists-do-accident Classic Get & read Lisa's book as it covers this sort of on again off again behavior ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck