Prize at the end(the story of Pam&Freddy)
Prize at the end(the story of Pam&Freddy)
yesterday I watched my cousins 3 kids so she could go to the hostpital to be with her mother-in-Law.Her MIL's name is Pam.A long time ago Pam was a single mother, struggling to make it with one small boy. A monster named Freddy spotted her and swooped in, quickly. It didn't take long for Pam to conform to Freddy's demands. She didn't quit her job.(She had a great job and was successfull)She began to do it all. She pushed herself to get everything perfect. She took care of Freddy's children from his first marriage(His first wife lost custody when she was hospitalized in a mental institution after overdosing on pills). Pam cooked, cleaned, took excellent care of the kids and Freddy. But not herself. Infact Pam quickly realized that there really wasn't any time for herself at all. Ever. As Pam son got older Freddy liked him less and less. Freddy was allowed to "punish" him as he saw fit. Pam cried and she tried to beg Freddy. But Freddy's ways were law. By the time Pams son was about 16 Freddy had had enough. He demanded that the son must leave. Desperate to save her marriage Pam agreed but begged Freddy to let the son live in the garage until he found a place. By this time Freddy was hitting Pam and her son. Having afairs and generaly being a nightmare. Pam got her wish and her son stayed in the garage. Pams son eventually ran away with a girl who was also homeless. She became pregnant. Pams son and his girlfriend were bothe on drugs so guess who got custody of the baby. A new victom for Freddy. Freddy began working on the little girl right away. Pams son became seriously addicted to drugs and ended up in jail. Some time later my cousin met Pams son and took him in.they got married. My cousin is a lot like Pam and so the cycle continues. The little girl is ten and freddy still has her. Pam...... two days ago Pam took over 150 pills and is on life support. She decided that life is not worth living since Freddy told her that he can't handle all her mental problems and breakdowns. He says she has to get her things out of his house. And since she is too sick to drive, he is keeping the car too. And..the little girl. Pam is 95 lbs and probably going to die. My cousin is living the exact same life and will continue to do so. She is on heavy antidepressants. What a prize you get at the end for staying. Used and disguarded like garbage.Your life and your childrens life destroyed. The legacy will continue for generations. Is he worth it? Freddy now has a new girlfriend. She is younger and has a good job and is perfectly healthy. Pam is now destroyed.
My heart breaks over this
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
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