Pics of me sent over my cell

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#1 November 2, 2009 - 12:35am
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Pics of me sent over my cell

I am looking for any knowledge or experience with the mistake of sending pics of an explicit nature to your Narc... (b4 you SEE THE LIGHT & get AWAY)
Is there anything Legal I can require to ensure they never get posted ANYWHERE on the Internet? I am about to file Divorce for the Second time and I don't want money from him but I do want pictures of me that I texted last May. Also I want My daughter's Graduation Pictures, and her Prom pictures. Also a video he made for her as a Graduation Gift (which he barely let me participate in! &*##@!@@#@!) Anyway, these things are KEEPSAKES - MAJOR LIFE EVENTS IN THE COURSE OF MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE. I trusted my "husband" (BARF) with all these things and I NEVER got them from him! The Explicit pics of me were sent last MAY after I STUPIDLY went out with him again so he could make me feel like SH@T ONE LAST TIME!!! So ANYBODY out there been thru this before?? Do I have ANY rights AT ALL??

November 3, 2009 - 1:27am
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I did that

Don't feel that way-seems the way people do things in this age of instant gratification via every technology going!I did that too- he did threaten to put the pics on the net, I said I don't care!!I etcha I'll get lots of hits lol!!!!None of my face you see,or much of my body. He didn't like the idea i might get more attention I think.LOL!!!!
November 2, 2009 - 6:09am
Barbara (not verified)
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you can sue for all of these: defamation, slander and invasion of privacy. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
November 3, 2009 - 12:09am (Reply to #2)
Kate (not verified)
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Well... thanks

I thought there would be more replies... Is it possible I'm the only woman in this senario? ..........Perhaps. How humiliating... Thx for the link.
November 3, 2009 - 8:39pm (Reply to #8)
cynthia (not verified)
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no you are not, I did too but never my face THANK GOD, just boobies, so what
November 3, 2009 - 12:12am (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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no, i've been there with Psycho-Boy and I went to the law about it. A few members have asked about this. Usually a strong letter from a paralegal or attorney stops them dead. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
November 3, 2009 - 10:40am (Reply to #4)
4joys (not verified)
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He wanted to take pictures

He wanted to take pictures like this of me but I never let him. Don't feel bad about it. They convince you to do crazy stuff you wouldn't normally do.
November 3, 2009 - 11:31am (Reply to #5)
Kate (not verified)
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Thank you friends...

4joys - Thank you! Yes they do don't they?? CREEPS. I hope your feeling better... I'm going to go read about your 'low' in a second... Buck up little Chipper Lol.. We love ya! Tasha - I LOVE IT!! Ha ha... Yeah... Excellent strategy! I'll keep it in mind! xo thanks for that little nugget! Barbara - That's EXACTLY what I will do. I will give the legal counsel his email as I am to act as if I don't know where he is... (I'm filing divorce via Publication) or I could wait till the divorce is FINAL and then have a letter sent to His girlfriend's house (where he's vamping now) and THINKS he's Hidden... hee hee MORON!!! I would LOVE to just show him he's NOT THAT SMART! (DUH RETARDO!! Anyone can find your whore's address on the Internet! Its NOT ROCKET SCIENCE DUFUS!!!) Maybe he would leave my City if I let him know I KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE! Muah -ah-ah-ah!!! lol -- OoooooH the Kicks & Giggles I get sometimes are SweEEEEt! THANKS ALL ~ This all helped a lot! All Fired Up!!!
November 3, 2009 - 12:29pm (Reply to #6)
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There is a video out there

There is a video out there that I lose sleep over from time to time. It is nearly a decade old now. It was taken by a guy I dated who I don't think was an N. My STBXNH had an obsession of buying pointy shoes and taking pics of my feet in them. I let him for a while then got sick of it. Those aren't very damaging but he posts them to this day to his Facebook page, which I don't like but haven't done anything about yet. He also posted an extremely disturbing (if you're me) pic of me being sewn up after giving birth. You couldn't actually see my crotch but probably only by accident. It was awful. I took that one down myself (he still doesn't realize he gave me his password). If I hadn't been able to do that I probably would have had to have my lawyer write his lawyer a letter, or go through FB. He certainly wouldn't have gotten what was so upsetting about it and taken it down voluntarily. Anyway, you're not alone. If you find out he sends them to people it looks like you can get him for defamation.
November 3, 2009 - 9:49pm (Reply to #7)
Kate (not verified)
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This is the problem guys!

IF HE DID POST THEM - It would be internet Places I would NEVER go... These were MORE than boob shots... It is my CROTCH!!! Lol OK? Seriously!!! I THOUGHT I was giving them to my husband who might have acted like a dick - but I didn't ever Expect that I'd be a potential PORN Item!! This SERIOUSLY disturbs me and my Spiritual life!!!!!! UGH... OH MY GOSH and the thought of him sending them to MEN I KNEW at the Ballroom Studio... and the LIES he probably told?????????? OMG!!!!! I can NEVER show my face there again... Ugh - the horror :( This is the only STRUGGLE I'm having right now regarding him - I miss NOTHING ANYMORE... He is a PIT in my stomach right now... YUK! I mean, he's already told everyone I'm a psycho-B and they never got to know ME - Just HIM!! So they'll just believe what HE SAYS and I know he's told them I'm obsessed with him... (HE WISHES!) So he'll probably make it sound like I just sent those photos to him trying to get his attention -- and None of them would ever tell me they saw my Va-J-J!! OH WELL! Ya know, like Tasha = they'll all be sayin' DANG DUDE you SURE you wanna let THAT go??????? Lol.. gotta laugh - what else can I do???? I guess I'll just check with an attorney... 'Itreallyisabouthim'= Feet in SHOES? FOOT FEDDISH! My FIRST HUSBAND (daughter's Dad- NOT A NARC)had one... as strange as he was -- I'd take HIM back over this Ass wipe ANY DAY OF THE CALENDAR YEAR!!!!!!!!! But yeah... the foot thing - it is kinda weird huh? HA!! All Fired Up!!!