Barbara, Lisa... I need your advice (again)...
You know about my blog and how recently I received an email from a bogus account created in my name by my ex threatening me that he was going to smear my name if I didn't remove my tags...
Well he must have sent the link to some of his friends because I received an email today from a friend of his saying:
"The only thing you will accomplish with your blog is make yourself look crazy plus maybe a defamation of character lawsuit. I have know xxx since I was a kid, he's not perfect but who is? I'm absolutely astonished that someone would go to these lengths to inflict pain and drag their name through the mud. No one has the right to do that. The decent thing to do would be to pull it off the internet. Forgive, forget and move on. By having this blog it's making it harder for you to do just that.
If xxxxxxx did you wrong it will come back to haunt him in the future. Karma is a bitch."
My sister thinks I should take down the blog and move on, she thinks I shouldn't have splattered the whole thing there. I feel that if I take down the blog, it's like he won... yet again... I haven't replied to that email, I don't think I should. I am aware he is trying to scare me off using his own friends, but I can't say that it hasnt affected me.
What would be the right thing to do? Remove the tags, take the entire blog down? or stand up for myself and keep everything as it is?