Do they Mark Their Territory?
Do they Mark Their Territory?
This, for some reason seems related to his Narcissism:
He can go for months putting the toilet seat down after he uses it and leaves it clean. Then for some reason, every time he uses it, he drips on it, or he leaves the seat up so I have to put it down before using it. That can go on for a couple weeks for every single time he uses it, and then he's back to being a gentleman about it again. He ripped my brother up and down about it when he left the seat up here at our house one time, that's why it seems so peculiar. It's like he wants me to clean up the pee, if I'm going to use his toilet or I'm going to have to put the seat down myself.
Another strange one:
After I clean our bathroom sink, he spits a big ole' chunk of toothpaste on the "cold" handle and across the spicket. He only does it one time and leaves it there, so if I have to use the cold water, I have to either clean it or stick my fingers in it and wash off. I noticed he only does it after I clean the sink. He would never spit toothpaste on it again until I cleaned it. So I knew he was doing on purpose, not by mistake. I thought, how strange he would go to that much trouble. At first I was cleaning it up everytime, then after I started putting it together, I just stopped cleaning it and he would leave it there - he would not add anymore to it. It had about worn off by yesterday and I noticed a new chunk spit on there, and a couple of chunks were in the sink (which I did not clean up). A little while later, the chunks in the sink were gone, but the chunk on the cold handle was still there, bright and red. He also flosses his teeth and makes it all fly on the mirror. Chunks of who knows what on the mirror until I can't see to brush my hair. I asked him about that, I didn't know about Narcissism then. His reaction was just this big wide smile. I said could you stop doing that? He didn't say yes or no, that's why I think the pee thing and toothpaste thing are part of it.
Anyone have weird stuff going on like that?
wow
Gross Gaslighting
worndown
oh yeah....