Passive Aggressive Narc Info

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Jannie In the Sun
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Passive Aggressive Narc Info

OMG! This describes the behavior of my exN (and my responses) to a fine point! Wow!

I didn't know about the DSMD or PA or NPD when I was dating him, but I saw the behaviors and confronted called the questions. My gut feelings were always right! Of course he had to run - and I had to get real!

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/Pass_Agg.htm

The Passive Aggressive and You:

The passive aggressive needs to have a relationship with someone who can be the object of his or her hostility. They need someone whose expectations and demands he/she can resist. A passive aggressive is usually attracted to co-dependents, people with low self-esteem and those who find it easy to make excuses for other's bad behaviors.

The biggest frustration in being with a passive aggressive is that they never follow through on agreements and promises. He/she will dodge responsibility for anything in the relationship while at the same time making it look as if he/she is pulling his/her own weight and is a very loving partner. The sad thing is, you can be made to believe that you are loved and adored by a person who is completely unable to form an emotional connection with anyone.

Jun 9 - 1PM
dudette
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Portrait of my narc....

pah....