Passive Aggressive Narc Info
Passive Aggressive Narc Info
OMG! This describes the behavior of my exN (and my responses) to a fine point! Wow!
I didn't know about the DSMD or PA or NPD when I was dating him, but I saw the behaviors and confronted called the questions. My gut feelings were always right! Of course he had to run - and I had to get real!
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/a/Pass_Agg.htm
The Passive Aggressive and You:
The passive aggressive needs to have a relationship with someone who can be the object of his or her hostility. They need someone whose expectations and demands he/she can resist. A passive aggressive is usually attracted to co-dependents, people with low self-esteem and those who find it easy to make excuses for other's bad behaviors.
The biggest frustration in being with a passive aggressive is that they never follow through on agreements and promises. He/she will dodge responsibility for anything in the relationship while at the same time making it look as if he/she is pulling his/her own weight and is a very loving partner. The sad thing is, you can be made to believe that you are loved and adored by a person who is completely unable to form an emotional connection with anyone.
Portrait of my narc....