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out grocery shopping and the U2 song XN said reminded him of us came on

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#1 Nov 8 - 7PM
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out grocery shopping and the U2 song XN said reminded him of us came on

What are the odds...just as im in the aisle looking for brown rice there it was out of nowhere... it was a different version with a female vocalist along with Bono.

I didnt get sad...instead hearing the female vocalist gave me a bit of a boost...the lyrics are so true for the relationship with XN...and i have to admit he was right..it does describe it so well. This is the first time in awhile something like this just popped up out of nowhere. During past D&D it was liscense plates from his state all over the place...no matter where i went they were all around me. I dont see them now.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipoZbsc_3eU

Is it getting better
Or do you feel the same
Will it make it easier on you now
You got someone to blame
You say...

One love
One life
When it's one need
In the night
One love
We get to share it
Leaves you baby if you
Don't care for it

Did I disappoint you
Or leave a bad taste in your mouth
You act like you never had love
And you want me to go without
Well it's...

Too late
Tonight
To drag the past out into the light
We're one, but we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other
One...

Have you come here for forgiveness
Have you come to raise the dead
Have you come here to play Jesus
To the lepers in your head

Did I ask too much
More than a lot
You gave me nothing
Now it's all I got
We're one
But we're not the same
Well we
Hurt each other
Then we do it again
You say
Love is a temple
Love a higher law
Love is a temple
Love the higher law
You ask me to enter
But then you make me crawl
And I can't be holding on
To what you got
When all you got is hurt

One love
One blood
One life
You got to do what you should
One life
With each other
Sisters
Brothers
One life
But we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other

One...life

One

Nov 8 - 8PM
better off
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try this one then

uh...that song's just some kind of guilt trip. When you hear trigger songs, just watch this video instead, it should shock you out of N fog. Liar http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vgQalXaIxs
Nov 8 - 8PM
tasha
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yep

leapers in their heads!!!I like this song too.reminds me of XNH.
Nov 8 - 8PM
LAex
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eery

My XN played the same song - it was with Bono and Mary J Blige. Have to admit that when I read your post, Destiny, I was wondering if it was this song. Ugh - trigger.
Nov 8 - 8PM
4joys4
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This happened to me once and

This happened to me once and I posted about it. Everywhere I went I was met by cues of him. I was like wtf? Brush it off. Like water on a ducks back, let it simply roll off.
Nov 8 - 7PM
Barbara (not verified)
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destiny

and you are letting this vampire take up free rent in your head because....? ~~~~~~~~~~~~ My Abuse Information Site Online Coaching & Help
Nov 8 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
destiny (not verified)
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great question.....i dunno.

great question.....i dunno. Im obviously seriously in the N fog....how on earth do i get over him...or to a place where you are at? It is clear he took advantage of my illness...said he would never leave my life...i could call him 24/7 I got to see him fall to the ground and i stupidly was there to catch him so he never hit the floor(figuratively speaking) and here i sit left picking up the pieces...after he did indeed let me hit the ground.... and hoping one day I hear he ruined his life again. and then I think wait destiny you were not the one with all the OW...the lies.......you were decent destiny...you were just in the wrong place at the wrong time. I hope to one day soon get to a point where I see this was needed to be a lesson so i can live the happy life I deserve. Maybe i should carry my ipod with me to stores, so i can choose my own music to listen to. “It's not hard to find the truth. What is hard is not to run away from it once you have found it.”