from the other side - it gets super freaking better

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#1 Oct 17 - 1AM
Godhasaplanforme
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from the other side - it gets super freaking better

I never thought Id get on the other side. But here I am, two years NC and freaking loving it. I always thought if I became a success story and moved on, Id come back and mentor coach and be a support for all the women struggling. But when you move on from the narc, you hate having to be reminded that once you were that weak and stupid and ridiculous.

So let me say this to you girls with the most conviction IT GETS BETTER. No it gets phenomenally insane. The last post I made was about how after the narc left me, I decided to quit my job and took up writing. After being jobless for a year, and freelancing on the side, I got a job at a top newspaper of the country.

I managed to travel to New York and lived there for two months. And now I got a fully paid internship to work at a music magazine in Berlin. I will be in Paris next week.

As I write this, Im sitting in my office in Berlin. HA!

All these things were unimaginable when I sat in my room crying for weeks but today they are my reality.

So I thank my narc for leaving me. I would not have achieved half the things or realised my true potential had he not left me heartbroken.

To the other woman, I hope he stays with you.

Oct 17 - 6AM
Juliette
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I love to read success stories! :)

Oct 17 - 6AM
IncognitoBurrito
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We

Oct 17 - 5AM
Froglegs
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Congratulations!

Oct 17 - 3AM
Hunter
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Wow!!! Awesome.. Good job..

Oct 17 - 4AM (Reply to #3)
Belle de jour
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Really? Mine too, perhaps

Oct 17 - 2AM
Belle de jour
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Thank you for posting this,