OMG!! I HATE CO-PARENTING!!
OMG!! I HATE CO-PARENTING!!
Ok, I'll try to be quick but I just had a MASSIVE argument with my XNH at my daughter's school!!
It was so horrible because he picks her up on his weekends on Thursdays and brings her back to school on Friday and Monday. So I always go to see her off and check her homework and such...well, he and I don't speak so it's quite awkward at the lunch table. The MOMENT we walk out the door to get in our cars, he starts the wide-eyed foaming at the mouth tantrum! Like a light bulb was switched off and on. Totally brings me immediately back to the memories of the abuse.
I have a phone for my daughter with a Mommy button and the other button has my mother's number in it. He would never answer my calls when she was with him so I bought her the phone to use when she's gone so we wouldn't have to worry about him not answering my calls. Anyway-he wants the phone number so he can call her! I told him that he could get her a "special" phone for when she's with me and he could talk to her that way. Mind you, he calls the house and my daughter begs for me not to answer the phone because she doesn't want to talk to him!!
He won't have that...he answered her phone and told me I would now have to call his phone in order to talk with her unless I gave him the number. He wouldn't let me talk to her and hung up HER phone and TURNED IT OFF!! BASTARD! So I call his phone...like he requested, answers and tells me, "Oh, you can talk later not right now..." and hangs up.
Doesn't he get that I don't want to speak with him?? We never speak, I try NOT to co-parent! I have nothing to say. I give him her backpack and give her a kiss goodbye and that's it...we don't talk and it is better that way. He can't talk to me with ANY ounce of respect and it's always a fight over control with him!
My hands are tied, the court system sucks and now my poor baby can't call me even if she wants to.
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* My name is Davy Jones *
Will Turner: You loved her. She's the one, then you cut your heart out...
Davy Jones: [tentacles bristling with rage] No... she PRETENDED to love me! SHE betrayed ME!
Will Turner: And after which betrayal did you cut
co-parenting?
co-parenting with these
SUCKS ASS
* My name is Davy Jones *
Will Turner: You loved her. She's the one, then you cut your heart out...
Davy Jones: [tentacles bristling with rage] No... she PRETENDED to love me! SHE betrayed ME!
Will Turner: And after which betrayal did you cut
oh lord, its truly