OMG HE IS NOW SAYING HE IS GOING TO KILL HIMSELF ON FB!!

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#1 Mar 15 - 11AM
booboo35
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OMG HE IS NOW SAYING HE IS GOING TO KILL HIMSELF ON FB!!

Hi all this in relation to my other post cant stop looking at his facebook, He has put on his fb wall please look after my mum and his other jay for me going to kill myself.. I am worried now should i ring him?? Or is he just doing this for attention?? I am not a evil person as much as he was a Bastard i dont want him too die?? x

Mar 15 - 8PM
becsta777
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OMG

My Ex-NH just recently posted a similar thing on FB. We are no longer friends, so I actually found out from my brother in law who called me to tell me about it. I knew straight away it was just for attention, but my Bro in law sounded bothered that I didnt seem to care. So I did contact a friend of the Ex-NH's and let them know. I'm not going to contact him over something like that, no way!! Anyway, the way I see it, if someone is really going to kill themselves, they're not going to post it up on fb. Its a blatant attention grab. Dont fall for it!!
Mar 15 - 3PM
agnesmurphy17
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suicide

Mine threatened suicide all the time. Gee whiz! Part of the game if they have borderline tendencies. When I was leaving mine he told a therapist that he was going to kill himself. She said she would call to have him committed. She had an obligation. He backed down. But, then two days later he decided to use that to his advantage to get attention and called her asking to be committed to a hospital. I left the house permanently that night. One last call that I received in the house was the therapist calling. I told her: "He's still alive. But, not here. You'll have to call him on his cell phone." I think that threw her a bit. A bit unconcerned, to say the least. But, she also knew he was not going to kill himself. DRAMA QUEEN! I couldn't have been so lucky! I would have gotten the house, everything. Today I'd be a rich woman. Oh well. Easy come, easy go.
Mar 15 - 2PM
Hunter
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In most cases it is a form of

In most cases it is a form of control, these are written words on FB if he is Boderline he could go through with it! I think if he is seeking he should get it! But from the authorities! It won't be the attention he is looking for, if he is suicidal he will get needed help! Idealk
Mar 15 - 4PM
ImStrong
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It is attention attention..a

It is attention attention..a form of attention supply..so every one can hit him up his wall and say noooo we love you your the best dont die..type shit..dont fall for it...ive studied enough of these narc to call It a bluff...if it is drastic that is fb concern not yours..it is the ultimate supply catcher

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Mar 15 - 1PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Block

BLOCK HIM. Threatening to kill himself is manipulation on a whole new level. If you can't see his posts, they can't hurt you! Let him do whatever he's going to do. You don't have control over anyone else, but yourself. You decide... do you want to hang on his every word? Do you want to worry over him? (He's not worried about you! Bet that!) Or do you want to move forward? NC. I keep trying to say it, a thousand different ways. Don't look, NC NC NC NC NC and then... MORE NC.
Mar 15 - 1PM
Hunter
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Listen to Goldie

This is usually a threat, it's a form of control, however I agree, if it's on FB authorities need to get involved, not you! Hugs Idealk
Mar 15 - 11AM
Goldie
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This is on his open facebook page?

I take it everyone can see this if it is on his wall, correct? Does he have many friends and family on there? If he DOES NOT, report it to facebook and or the authorities immediately. Otherwise if others have seen it and responded, I trust that they will report it. I am quite sure this is drama and he is screwing with you. Don't respond to him directly this is clearly a cry for attention. However, it still is a suicide threat. He is a fool if this is a game, someone is going to report it, no question. They LOVE to play the sucide card and if it is on an open page someone is going to respond, if you do not think they will, let me know privately who he is and I will report it. I am a mandated reporter and must report a potential suicide or death threat if it has not been done alreay. Please let me know, a.s.a.p. Thanks and hang in, he is mostly likely playing you and others here, however, a suicide threat must be reported by law. Goldie
Mar 15 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
booboo35
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Goldie i have just rang his

Goldie i have just rang his sister in Liverpool UK, That is were i am from. She is going to go round to his flat to talk to him, He does have lots of friends on FB but there all fair weather friends a bit like him, His sister is 12 years older than and knows what he is like, Thanks though, I do think is just a cry fro attention though, Hopefully he will be able to get the help he needs now through Psychiatrist. xx

STAY STRONG!! XX

Mar 15 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
Goldie
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Is the sister heading over right now?

Please let me know, I also sent you a private message. Thanks hon and hang in, we are here for you. God bless, Goldie
Mar 15 - 11AM
booboo35
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My son who is 16 has just

My son who is 16 has just said to me he is just doing it for attention too, This is why i should not have looked at his fb, I cant block him now till tomorrow at 2pm , As it takes 48 hours before you can block again, I hate him for being so selfish why does he not go and get counselling and help for his condition? Well if he does kill himself i will probably get the blame anyway i used to get the blame for everything else. Am upset now, Girls please if you have any sense do not look at there FB page it just fucks with your head,,!1 x

STAY STRONG!! XX

Mar 16 - 2AM (Reply to #5)
ImStrong
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What we fail to realize is

What we fail to realize is the narc fucks with your head with or without fb..fb is just a used utility for the narc just like we were..i agree if you do not understand these clear facts you might take everything the narc says specificaly on fb to heart..you must be strong enough to realize and rationalize that everything he says is shit..you can have a lot of sense and look at his fb..its what you take in personally and what you choose to leave out.. If your weak dont look at his fb...I repeat {((Do Not Look At His Fb If Your Weak})) If your strong and fully understand everything he says is full of shit...then you do have a lot of sense and are strong at will to challenge this obsticle and overcome it.. Weaker minds tend to avoid and Block..stronger minds face head on

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Mar 15 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
IncognitoBurrito
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Amen.

I think this bares repeating. "Girls please if you have any sense do not look at there FB page it just fucks with your head!" On the bright side, at least you were able to tell his sister. That was the caring thing to do.
Mar 15 - 11AM
believeinshawn
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This is strictly for

This is strictly for attention. Highly doubtful he means it. If you call, he gets supply.. and he will likely make you remember why you left him in the first place!
Mar 15 - 11AM
michele115 (not verified)
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You aren't skilled in lifesaving....

If he's going to kill himself not much you can do. If it really bothers you maybe ring the police? Otherwise what can you do really? I know it sounds coldhearted but I'm sure he has other FB friends that have read this post and will react. But again, it's your conscious that would be bothered, but I wouldn't get into being his lifesaver. If he has family, maybe call them and let them know but clearly tell them you want nothing to do with it. In recovery we have to strive to avoid rescue missions...it's what got us in the jam. If it were me, probably I'd call a family member but tell them I wanted to stay out of it. Family has an obligation to step in...you are no longer with him it's not your job.