Ok, just wondering....

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#1 Sep 29 - 2PM
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Ok, just wondering....

I have yet another question for everyone.....Did your Narc ever avoid posting anything on you FB page like "Happy Birthday..." Happy Valentine's Day" or anything......Mine wouldn't EVER post anything to me at all....yet had our profile pic together, in a relationship, etc.....yet never corresponded publicly.......does this sound familiar?????

Sep 29 - 10PM
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Facebook

Mine never posted AAANYTHING on my facebook and if I posted on his I got in big "trouble." The first time he threatened to end things with me. The second time he deleted the comment off his wall and he told me that "he just wanted to be friends" and he didn't think we should sleep together anymore. He "punished" me every time in a big way. In hindsight he probably was doing that for no other reason than to make me feel like absolute crap. He knew it would cause me to question who else he was sleeping with and drive me crazy. It worked. NOT ANYMORE! loser.
Sep 29 - 10PM
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Mine never posted anything on

Mine never posted anything on my wall either. He added me as in a relationship after 1 whole year. It remained that way for about 3 years, then we parted ways for 5 months....when we got back together neither he or I changed it. He never ever wrote anything on my facebook page. It was so weird, like publicly he didnt want to admit to being with me, or maybe it was because he had other girls who thought he was single, who knows.
Sep 29 - 3PM
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Wouldnt friend me on FB

One night we were on the computer, he told me to friend him, after a month or so he never friended me back so I deleted the request and asked him why he wouldn't friend me. He said "if this is going to cause an issue then I will just go off FB for good, I never go on there anyway so there is no point" i was friends with his son and I know he rarely went on. He went down the list of his friends and told me who they all were. Mostly women, he went to HS with, worked with, a few he dated, only about 25 friends, and family members. I'm sure he wouldn't want the other women to know he was with me in case I posted a pic of us and tagged him etc. Part of the scrambled eggs.......HE was the one who told me to friend him!
Sep 29 - 3PM (Reply to #11)
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lisa87

he asked me to *friend him*.....so he left you *pending for a month*.....what an arsehole......narc used to say, if i gave you the money ,would you phone me ,i said i dont want money to do it. so i phoned him,it was switched off...then i text him and he wouldnt answer.....
Sep 29 - 9PM (Reply to #12)
CaminoReal
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I know our disordered ones are mind-f**king entities, but that is CRAZY and CHILDISH and should be an indicator of who/what you are dealing with: ALIENS! cr
Sep 29 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Lisa87
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oh and never got a happy birthday or rarely VDay cards...

but made a big deal of xmas.......who can make any sense of what or why they do what they do!!
Sep 29 - 3PM (Reply to #10)
needing2know
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yeah Christams he went all

yeah Christams he went all out!
Sep 29 - 2PM
needing2know
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we are not friends on FB, but

we are not friends on FB, but never heard Happy valentines Day notr did I get anything! never got cards or anything for my B-day either, we don't even have any pictures of us together and I was with him for 7 years!
Sep 29 - 9PM (Reply to #7)
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needing2know

omg mine doesnt have a single pic of me only of my dog. he just didnt want one of me, like i wasnt significant. and same here, never received a single card or gift on any holiday or bday. so hurtful and sickening
Sep 29 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
spinning
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N2K, how strange...

...I was with the psycho freak for six years and there are just two photos of us together at a family function because someone in my family was taking photos of the event. This was in the last year of our so-called relationship. They are now on a disc that my dad made before he passed away and there are a whole bunch of other photos on that disc of the event and other things. I wish I could erase them, but the disc is not mine. I asked my sister if she could delete them and she said she did not know how. He never ever took one photo of me or wanted any photos of us together. Not one. Never. Yuck! Good riddance! Hope you are doing well today, N2K, and you too, BTE. I was never on FB and neither was the secretive psycho boy so I can't answer your question. Hugs, (not) spinning. NEVER AGAIN FOR ANY MAN, FOR ANY ONE!

spinning

Sep 29 - 10PM (Reply to #6)
Puzzle
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Spinning, mine never wanted

Spinning, mine never wanted photos of me either after 5 years together he didn't even have 1 picture of me in his house. I gave him a photo in a frame for Xmas of us in Spain together, nothing too romantic, just drinking beers on the banks of the river. I have no idea where he put it, because it wasn't in his house. He probably shoved it under the bed. He has pics of me on facebook when we lived in London from 2007, but has not taken a pic of me and him since. It is so bizzare to spend 5 years with someone and not have any evidence of the last 3 years. He had a pin up board when we met of pics of his friends, family, childhood and some of his ex girlfriend and him. He didn't put the pics of his ex away for about a year, but he never put any of me up or asked for any. I wonder if it is a ploy, that they actually put them up when we leave for the next girl to feel uneasy and like we are competition, maybe it is part of their sick game. Thanks for reminding me of this, the things we forget. They are so odd
Sep 29 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
needing2know
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spinning

He had or has (don't know if he has them or not) a ton of pictures of me, he took them all the time, but what i noticed when he was taking them, it was like he was trying to do it whne he didn't think I noticed him doing it.
Sep 29 - 6PM (Reply to #4)
marisha
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Yeah me too N2K !!! tons of

Yeah me too N2K !!! tons of pictures me from.a back or waiting for him.from somewhere from.a distance. . Or tending to my child etc. . Very rare pictures of us together. . Only on vacation or restaurant when someone would insist to snap a pic of 2 of us. .and he would always hate those. . :-O
Sep 29 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
needing2know
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we never went on vacations or

we never went on vacations or did anything like that, his pictures of me aren't from the back, he has them of me facing his direction.