Ok I think it was me not him, he warned me!

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#1 Jul 15 - 12PM
needing2know
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Ok I think it was me not him, he warned me!

I read an article about what it means when a man says " I can't give you what you want" he use to say it to me all the time, It says in the article that a "decent man" will walk away from you , if you don't walk away from him , it says he is giving you a warning of who he is, well if that's the case I am dumber than I thought! He would say this to me and I would tell him , 'yes you can" He would also tell me that every time he told someone he loved them, they would leave him, I didn't leave him , I stood by him even thought he gave me a warning! because I was stupid and stayed, I was used, I allowed it to happen, he knew that because even after his warning to me, I stayed so I gave him permission to use me for whatever reason, because I didn't leave . I am so confused, so tore up after reading this, I was stupid! If I ever hear those words from another man , you can bet your ass I will run like hell! I stayed because I loved him , I wanted him to know that not everyone will leave, god I am so stupid!
He is dead now and there is nothing there anymore, except for me to continue to pick myself up and carry on and continue to try and heal!

Jul 16 - 10AM
spinning
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needing, braveheart, I WILL NOT STAND

spinning

Jul 16 - 10AM (Reply to #42)
needing2know
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Spinning

Jul 16 - 8AM
Sickofhim
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I ignored what was said to me too

Jul 15 - 7PM
onwithmylife
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needing2know

Jul 15 - 9PM (Reply to #38)
needing2know
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onwithmylife

Jul 16 - 8AM (Reply to #39)
onwithmylife
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needing2 know

Jul 15 - 6PM
Rising Dawn
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I knew and I still got involved...

Jul 15 - 5PM
Brit
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He locked you in

Jul 15 - 7PM (Reply to #35)
onwithmylife
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Brit

Jul 15 - 7PM (Reply to #34)
fern
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Brit, outstanding post -

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #33)
needing2know
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Brit

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #32)
ruby01 (not verified)
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Brit

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #31)
Ruby
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" he doesn't have to do

Jul 15 - 3PM
Layla
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In the end.............

Jul 15 - 2PM
Belle de jour
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Needing2know, For such a long

Jul 15 - 2PM
erika astrid
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Mine said..

Jul 15 - 1PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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It's those darn boundaries!

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #26)
needing2know
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Ruby

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #24)
Night Owl
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"Start wanting less from me

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #25)
ruby01 (not verified)
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Night Owl

Jul 15 - 12PM
Deidre99
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They don't say that with

Jul 15 - 2PM (Reply to #22)
erika astrid
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......

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #21)
needing2know
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Deidre

Jul 15 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
Jenna H
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using words for control is so right

Jul 15 - 3PM (Reply to #13)
Scarlett
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SO true!

Jul 15 - 3PM (Reply to #14)
Jenna H
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Scarlett that is spot!

Jul 16 - 10PM (Reply to #16)
Tiny Artist
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He showed no concern about me

Jul 16 - 10PM (Reply to #17)
Jenna H
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are they all cut from the same cloth?

Jul 16 - 11PM (Reply to #18)
Tiny Artist
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For me? In the beginning, he

Jul 17 - 6AM (Reply to #19)
Ruby
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Wow he must have been a twin