OK FRIENDS, IVE BEEN HOLDING BACK, I MET SOMEONE, AM SO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP
OK FRIENDS, IVE BEEN HOLDING BACK, I MET SOMEONE, AM SO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP
I didnt post about this situation yet, I met a really nice guy, well, i was reacquainted with a really nice guy, hes not great looking, a little on the heavy side, but has the best, i mean the best personality, ever, hes kind, funny, open, honest, and a millionaire to boot. the problem is, my fucked up situation with my obsession with my hN and his ow..........as you all know.......lol.....this new guy, took me out Friday night, Saturday night and to lunch today, He absolutely crazy about me, i can tell, but was hoping he wouldnt say.......finally he told me today, when he called to thank me and my daughter for having lunch with him, oh and by the way, he invited my daughter as well, she loved him, thought he was so funny and so cool.etc.....nothing like dad she said.....ok, so lets get down to it, he told me, im 50 years old, not into the bar scene, i love to travel, love to spend money, because i worked so hard for it, and its mine to spend, would love to spend it on me, as you know my hN never brought me anywhere or bought me anything to speak of, etc...but he told me and i quote, "Im absolutely crazy about you, and want to know if you want the same things I want, lets be honest, i dont want to waste my time or end up being hurt, if you are looking for something totally different, I would love to see how things go, and see if it would work, I think youre beautiful, funny, kind and a little twisted, but i love everything about you, i wouldnt want you to change, i love the way you constantly repeat yourself (bad habit due to stress from hN) I love the way you dress, and I absolutely have always loved you, but you were always married, but now you are not, so take some time think about it and let me know if you are interested and having a real relationship with someone who thinks the world of you.........oh God, girls, im fucked, i dont know how i feel, i love talking to him, hes a fucking riot, i love the way he just says it like it is, i love that ive know him forever, but never had much to do with him, just have known what a great guy he is, everyone i know loves him, they think hes a great person, stand up guy, and too boot, hes still really good friends with his first and only wife, they had no children, and have been divorced for years, i think 14years, hes lived with two other women, one for four years and the other on and off for quite a few years........hes smart, a financial wizard, and the most generous man ive ever know, so what the fuck do i do, please help me.......i dont want to pass him up, but my stomach is in knots about my hN and his ow, still, so what do i do, try this out for a distraction, and maybe i will feel more for him and forget the hN and his ow, or be honest to myself and say, yeah, i would love to be into it, but am too stubborn to get over the hN and his lousy ow, i really think i really believe there is no possible way to love my hN hes such a prick to me, and to be honest, i looked at him today and he looks like shit, like hes going to drop dead at any moment, his skin looks green, the whites of his eyes are yellow, he looks sooooo fucking fat and unhealthy, hes totally on another cycle of steriods, and i really hate him.......tell me what to do, and ps, this guy is so unnarc, i dont think i would know what to do with him lol
RED FLAG
nlb, thank you
Jaycee
I will
dont misunderstand, hes no prince charming, hes shrek
Jaycee
Go out with him and have a
go for it
Jaycee
he really is a nice guy its me i fear
Jaycee
Things are going too fast and
is it just me??
Jaycee
Jaycee, I know I have asked
Yes, Jaycee, You are very
Sounds like things are moving pretty fast to me