OH MY GOD, I HAVE NEVER SEEN SUCH ACTING

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#1 Apr 11 - 8PM
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OH MY GOD, I HAVE NEVER SEEN SUCH ACTING

We talk about how perplexing their behavior is, loveofmylife your;s is really messing with your head, he is just as bad as mine is. Its a terrible and evil thing to do to another human being just when we think they are human they turn around and show us they arent.

Today I receive a message that his father died, (of course I had to check it out and sure enough he did) his voice was cracking when he left the message and I thought if this is an act this is REALLY sick. Anyway he is my 2nd cousin, but we are both adopted so there is no real blood relation, but what I find interesting is he is using this BS front that we are cousins to cover his ass. He even talks to me on the phone with his GF there acting like we are close cousins. So listen to what he wanted me to do. HIs father would have been my great uncle or something like that and he calls and asks if I could go over all his family history on his dad's side with him and if I go to the funeral I could stay at the house with he and his GF and to let him know.

What a convenient set up for this man huh? GF would never suspect he was screwing his cousin, what does he think that I am going to be his close cousin now so he can keep in touch with me? I am telling you ladies they are so dangerous and sick they even go after family members for sexual victims, even though we are not biologically related its the principal of the thing. Of course when he was taking me for a ride he said we arent related and are both adopted, but now that tune has changed. I am sure they are quite capable of incest, he even suggested one time doing my daughter and seeing if she is as good as her mother, or mother and daughter at the same time. Now this is the man who called and his voice was cracking about his father's death and wants to look at family scrap books together. The only thing he has in his scrap books is porn, ha Anyway, he hated his father, called him a F idiot all the time, now he is putting on the grieving son act as if he lost his best friend. I am sure his GF will comfort him during this difficult time.

Apr 12 - 10PM
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Funerals Seem To Be His M.O.

Funerals seem to be his calling card in making contact with you over the last several decades. He views it as an absolutely excellent and legitimate cover for him, because after all, WHO in their right mind would use someone's DEATH as a means to contact someone in order to seduce them and try to brainwash them into perverted sexual acts? He has obviously cornered the market on this very disturbing song and dance. Did he forget in his old age that you have figured out his 'make-contact-when-a-funeral-comes-along' seduction scheme? Using his own father's death to get p*ssy is the most pathetic thing I have ever heard of. I hope that you will not respond in any fashion to this sadistic pathetic perverted maniac. Just recall that he wanted to destroy your relationship with you and your daughter by encouraging incest between the two of you for his viewing pleasure. It's not just perverted, it's evil, and the end goal was the destruction of the very things you hold most dear, your children. He is bottom of the barrel in his perverted madness. Where do you go after promoting incest? I assume bestiality and then necrophelia. Anyways, another nifty thing to recall should you on the very very slim chance get tempted to respond to him - recall that his stingy multi-millionaire ass never offered to assist you financially when you could have used a helping hand - instead he chose to show off his "cum-colored" carpeting and fancy fireplace decor. I'm not at all worried about you contacting this rat-bastard. I only feel bad for the idiot who lives with him for his money and puts up with his perversions on a daily basis. Wonder if he pee'd or sh*t on her yet today to get off? Probably so. Hang in there Cynthia! No contact! You can do it! We need your wisdom around here, and not for you to become a victim of his all over again! You are one of our poster girls of well educated survivors after all! : )
Apr 13 - 9PM (Reply to #12)
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Wow Foreverlearning

In reading this I was so moved by your careful tracking, attention, wisdom and generosity of spirit in sharing what you perceive and know. I know Cynthia will benefit from this tremendously. Thank you for giving so much of your very astute and precious self to this group.
Apr 13 - 6PM (Reply to #11)
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ForeverLearning

You are a very very wise woman, what a summary you provided for me, and you have been keeping track of what this bastards technique is and what he uses to lure, trap and destroy. Funerals seem to be his calling card: Yes indeed it started when my grandmother died, then he was there when my father died, then my mother, using funerals and preying on the grieving daughter to get p---y. Then his mother died - again I get an invitation to the funeral to stay over night with he and his so called GF, then his father dies AGAIN he plays the grieving son, and the bottom motive is to try and set up a threesome after the visitation. hope that you will not respond in any fashion to this sadistic pathetic perverted maniac No I didnt respond I am still in shock someone could be this disturbed. recall that his stingy multi-millionaire ass never offered to assist you financially when you could have used a helping hand - instead he chose to show off his "cum-colored" carpeting and fancy fireplace decor.: I thought of that many times, here I lost my job of 6 years due to all this trauma, suffered as we all did of PTSD, I never told him I lost my job he knows nothing of what he did to my life, NOTHING, what good what it do he would just laugh or say thats not my problem or even torture me further. Really though it was quite sickening as he was showing me his home I was throwing daggers at him behind his back thinking what a piece of shit piece of scum of a person, maybe thats why it didnt impress me much it was very very hard for me to even say you have a beautiful home and it wasnt because I was jealous, it was the way he acquired it, I think of him as this sicko living in this mansion, there is NO LOVE in that home thats for sure. feel bad for the idiot who lives with him for his money and puts up with his perversions on a daily basis. Wonder if he pee'd or sh*t on her yet today to get off? Probably so. I really wonder if she would put up with all that sickness if the man wasnt filthy rich, I DOUBT IT, he knows he has nothing else to offer anyone so he keeps them by giving them material things. ha ha ha I asked him once, so tell me does your GF piss on you? he never answered, just gave me a smirk. I am sure they have plastic sheets on their love bed they share, ha ha. I mean he probably comes home after work and instead of saying, oh honey I really want to mess around, he says gee I really have this urge to urinate on you, it would really get me off, what do ya say? Its amazing isnt it what people will put up with to live in the lap of luxury, he probably pimps her out to bring home others for him, that is probably part of her rent and one of the stipulations of being his so called steady girl, and she better not get jealous and learn to enjoy it. I am hanging in there, I WILL NEVER become his victim again, because everyone is dead now, no more funerals, ha You know its strange Foreverlearning that as much as we KNOW we are the lucky ones that escaped this life of HELL you would think in the recovery that would make us rejoice and at times I do feel peace knowing that, it was the betrayal more than anything that caused me the most damage. I guess we can say, ya I was betrayed but look at what kind of person did this to me, someone sick and highly disordered so what did you expect. There will come a day when there will be no more tears, and I can just say, HE WAS ONE SICK F--k and I can laugh at him. I can laugh at the charm, the acting, and his ridiculous sick sexual fantasies and my sexual bond and connection to him that I thought was love. It took me a good year to take back all those feelings of love I gave someone knowing what he really was, you cant just turn love off like a faucet we have to work through it. Its like one day we loved this perfect man, then the next day he turns into a sexual predator so I better stop these feelings of love RIGHT NOW, wish it was that easy. Thank you for your summary and remembering what I have personally suffered through x0x0x0
Apr 12 - 12PM
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Cyn

What a basket case! Why on earrh does he think u would want to stay under the same roof as he & his gf??? Next time you go to missing him, remember what he said about you & your dd. That just goes to show how effed up they are! He is sick! To think, there are some sick women (mother & dd that do that crap!) They have to be on drugs to be ok to do that! He's using his dead father so HE could get pity! Thats what my exN did. He called crying saying his father was dying...not true! His mom said he might be sick (they're divorced) but he's far from dying & still crazy as hell! Narc must take after his father!
Apr 12 - 8AM
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DADDY'S DEAD....

the psychonarc hated his father too...and his mother..he refused to go to his mother's funeral...saying that i kept him away..but he actually stayed away because he couldn't even FAKE interest, and he knew it would show.... i got the news first when his father died...a friend called me and told me it was in the paper... i looked it up, printed off the obit, read it and smiled.. took it and threw it down in front of him....he read it...and looked a little upset...very upset actually...he turned pale..and had to sit down....it wasn't his father being dead that concerned him..it was the 'survived by' line.....'survived by his loving wife, Virginia'...the old man had gotten over on all of them..by marrying an 80 year old gold digger three days before he died.....she got it ALL....and the psycho got ONE DOLLAR.. when he read the 'survived by' line...he knew it was all over...that the fortune he had rubbed in my face for years wasn't going to be coming his way...he knew he was screwed...other than the time he wrecked THE car..it's the closest i've ever seen him come to crying..... his grief was quite touching...... :)
Apr 12 - 11AM (Reply to #7)
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Narcnarc

I swear, you crack me up every time! His father left him a dollar???! Oh that is priceless!
Apr 12 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
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narcnarc

Oh my, that is priceless. I find strange comfort in narc smack-down stories. Thanks for sharing.
Apr 11 - 11PM
Barbara (not verified)
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cynthia

tell me you said NO to the whole thing... including the funeral. ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 12 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
cynthia (not verified)
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NO CONTACT

I never responded to the call!!!! YAHOO Isnt it sick Barbara!!!
Apr 12 - 8AM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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anything to force contact

sick, delusional... almost beyond belief except I know he's NOT HUMAN ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 12 - 7AM (Reply to #4)
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That's awesome!!

Keep it up!
Apr 11 - 8PM
MsVulcan500
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Yes, it's very interesting

Yes, it's very interesting how the story changes to suit the purpose du jour. This is just the way they always operate. You're right, let the gf help him through this terrible time. She can go through the family albums with him. What he probably really wants to look at is the will, to see how grief-stricken he needs to be.