Obsessed all night after seeing him...
Obsessed all night after seeing him...
Iobsessed all night...ugh... I have been doing very well this past week and this site has been such a help. Went for a run at my friend's house yesterday because she trains with me some. She lives in an area that my Narc does not frequent. She went home early as I was wanted to run further than here. What are the chances?? As I am running around a corner, here comes the NARC with another guy and the OW running right behind him. My heart started pounding and I wanted to turn and run the other way. He saw me. I saw him. I just kept running and ignored them all. I'm sure he didn't want to look bad in front of the other guy so he akwardly yells out, "Hey,how are you doing?"
I felt nothing but absolute anger. To make matters worse. I got back to friends house shaken up and jumped in car with her to deliver gift to a friend and we drove right into them AGAIN. I tumbled right back into the obsessive thinking and rehashing. I read the post about why we obsess, feelings. Why do I keep feeling so angry and hurt and jealous over this asshole? It always appears that he is just cruising along with no consequences for his hideous behaviour and I just crave proof that he is suffering like I have.
Anger. Hurt. Sadness. Lonely. Jealous.
Even though I know, logically, that I am so much better off and will eventually get through this.
How do you deal with seeing them? I have chosen to just ignore his existence each time it happens because I don't want to lose my temper and I certainly don't want him to garner one ounce of pleasure from me ever again.
Im gonna say Congrats!!!!
So
His image
too coincidental
You are underestimating this
In the hood
Mtg w/Therapist
I had the luxury of living
The gym is an issue as well
Contact = Pain Ugh..are you
Contact does = Pain
The therapist is a great