now what am i left with
now what am i left with
thank you Carolyn for that sound advise, I have been told that, stay away from that fish pond people in his position have alot of power and on top of that he is narcisstic/poss psychopath even more dangerous. so here is what I am left with, I have been married thru all this, I am 51, we met up again after 20 some years at both my parents funeral, they passed away 4 months apart, I knew him since we were small, 2nd cousins but wait wait we were both adopted so dont judge me to harshly on that, my mother always told me he was such a nice guy, ha ha she is better off never knowing just how nice he was. So i have been in an abusive marriage for many many years all verbal abuse and this man comes into my life, oh my god, we have so much in common, he adored my parents, we have the same history, etc and bla bla bla bullcrap bla oh you should have heard how wonderful it sounded, and he and his girlfriend really werent going anywhere .... I made the mistake of telling him my marriage had been rough but I didnt think for one moment he was who he was, I thought he genuinely wanted to help me knowing my family and all - so it was a dream come true, until he showed me the ugly side but I have to hand it to him he kept it up for a good 6 months until he had me hooked and had me so deeply in love. Now I am left still married to the abusive husband but more than ever this man did show me just how miserable I have been in my marriage, I was sooo hungry to be loved and treated the right way that I feel for it hook line and sinker, I have NEVER NEVER strayed but I thought hey here was my chance at a better life ya right, I think I will probably divorce my husband, (NO HE NEVER KNEW AND MY COUNSELOR ADVISED TO KEEP IT THAT WAY) I feel no love for my husband he does not see his abusive ways as much as I have begged him to stop his drinking and awful behavior, so ya my dream went to shit and I am left with yet another hurdle to overcome, its been a real treat but in the end I DID learn the whys
I am new and posted for the
I wonder
cindy
Predators always hunt the wounded.
Predators always hunt the wounded.
Mar1e101
Tears do heal...
can't agree
Agree with Barbara
"The best thing that ever
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
nolongercontrolled
Really?
Dr. Phil
Yep