Nothing ever goes right and I just want to be ME again!
Nothing ever goes right and I just want to be ME again!
I was being playful before to someone about my painter...(cause I use humor a lot) I posted before that I hated men...(again no offense to male victims here)
I hired a painter to paint my high ceiling foyer...I painted everything else but couldnt reach that area so I had to hire....Long story short...he hit on me...then kept asking me for coffee..water,,,food...I found him sleeping twice on my floor,,,after asking me for some money so he can get a hotel room close so he can finish tomorrow...he finally leaves only to find his van out of gas...who does he call to get him gas???? ME...sucker that I am..did it.wasnt happy but did it anyway.....which brings me to this......
Im soooo sad and angry right now...if the xnarc wasnt such an asshole I wouldnt have to rely on others for help,,,Im alone and have to take what I can get.....I cant stop thinking how exn couldve done this or that....that because of HIM now Im exposed to other men like this to help...trash!!! Nothing I do is EVER right!!!
My life wasnt suppose to be this way...
I was everything the exn ever wanted...so why did he turn into an asshole...
My whole time with him was such a fucking lie and I cant get over that....I was sooo good to him and his kids...they loved me like a mother....My world revolved around him...why wouldnt someone embrace that instead of take it for granted?!?!?!?
I hate him and everything he stands for.....
I know I saved myself and my poor innocent babies...but God I hate feeling like I lost...like I was replaced...like I was nothing...not good enough....
I find that whenever anyone says anything slightly critical of me...I bite their head off.....Im not usually like that...I dont like being like that...I was always the one to laugh at myself. It was very hard to insult me...but now...Im sooo different and I dont like it...
I want to be me again...not this wounded little deer
Be gentle with yourself.
Janemarie, you are looking at
janemarie
jane
Your not different! YOU JUST