No one wants an ASS for Christmas

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#1 Dec 21 - 9AM
karlak
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No one wants an ASS for Christmas

Today is Friday, the end of the world did not come!! Sigh!!! LOL

I'm fit to be tied today, for not other reason than it is Friday, and last night, well actually most of yesterday I cried those cleansing tears of goodbye, see ya and what an ASS the N was.

Liars, Cheaters, sick, sick people for sure!!

I KNOW this weekend will be hard, it's Christmas and I was thinking of all the Holidays over the 10 years I was with N. It didn't make me sad at all. I was able to put it in the "past" box and realize that with the Holidays and the New Year coming, that I get a chance for the first time in my life to be truly happy.

No one telling me who I am, how bad I am, how pushy or whatever I am or someone sitting next to me who is so emotionally blocked, it feels like a stranger next to you. I get to just be ME. ME, MYSELF and I and guess what, that feels pretty good.

I think for me, it was always the 'fear' of believing I would not find someone better. At this point I don't want 'someone" better, I want ME better. ME ME ME! Not him, not others, ME!!

We believe the lies, the manipulation, the pain can consume us, but brighter days are coming and honestly guys,

WHO REALLY WANTS AN ASS FOR CHRISTMAS? I certainly don't!!

So don't break NC for a Holiday. The Holidays will come and go, but the emotional abuse for that "moment" of contact will last for weeks and weeks and months and months. Is is worth it? NOPE, sure not.

I wish you guys all peace and strength thru this weekend and next week. Yes it will be tough, probably will be lots of hovering. But if you don't have them blocked and you get a text/email/phone call- IT does NOT mean it's about YOU. It means its about "them". They are not being nice. They are not sitting there sad and thinking of you. NOPE, NOPE, NOPE. They are going to want to feed their supply. That's it.

So don't get sucked in the pits of hell because you "think" ASS is being "nice and misses you"

He doesn't and he never will. Get it.

NO ON WANTS AN ASS FOR CHRISTMAS.

Dec 21 - 8PM
ashlynn
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Love your positive post. It's

Dec 21 - 4PM
kollontai77
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Dec 21 - 4PM
shock and awe.some
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You are funny

Dec 21 - 12PM
Goldie
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Dear Santa, please please please give me an ASS for Christmas

Dec 21 - 11PM (Reply to #2)
Butterflystar
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Ha, ha,