No contact mistake..

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#1 Nov 14 - 6PM
Ruby
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No contact mistake..

I was on my facebook and typed in the first initial of a friend to see if she is back from holiday. " his " pic was the one at the top and I had already clicked it before I realized that, and so ..I was on his page.
Well your'e here now..whats the harm in looking.
Yeh.
The usual tragic song bs and they all seemed to be similar. Normal people don't post things like that. I started to feel sorry for him but just closed the page.
Then I purposely went back, to see if he had posted more.
I don't know why, just curious I guess.
And, typical and true to form, OW was all over it with posts.
It hurt.
For about a millisecond..
my thoughts were just , well what would you expect?
He often posted things that seemed like a jab a me. purposely meant to hurt me.
It was a mistake and I should not have looked. But for that short while that I was feeling sorry for him, it would have been real easy to contact him and tell him that I still care.
Maybe I will always care. But I still would not ever go back to that. no way. never.
Seeing OW still there, just confirmed to me that I was right all along.

Nov 15 - 4AM
Deidre99
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what did the world do before

Nov 15 - 11AM (Reply to #32)
terri
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Good question Deidre!

Believe in yourself!
Terri

Nov 15 - 11AM (Reply to #33)
spinning
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Terri! It's almost

spinning

Nov 15 - 11AM (Reply to #34)
terri
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Spinning - ain't it the truth!

Believe in yourself!
Terri

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #20)
Ruby
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Hi Deidre99 Yes I have

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #27)
Deidre99
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I actually TOTALLY get that.

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #28)
Ruby
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Thanks. The winning post is

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #29)
Deidre99
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It is a sometimes arduous

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #30)
Ruby
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lol yes a series of lessons =

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #31)
Deidre99
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I'm glad you learned. Took me

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #21)
LightAtTheEndOf...
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Actually I disagree...

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #25)
Deidre99
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I really enjoy your posts,

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #26)
LightAtTheEndOf...
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Lol thank you Deidre it took

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #22)
Ruby
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Thanks. He doesn't care. I

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #24)
talktothehand
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Masquerade

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #23)
LightAtTheEndOf...
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Oh the hoover isn't because

Nov 15 - 12AM
LightAtTheEndOf...
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Yeah you need to block. Don't

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #18)
Ruby
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Thanks. My solution was to

Nov 14 - 7PM
Im_always_fine
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Why are you so sentimental

Nov 14 - 7PM (Reply to #16)
Ruby
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Thanks. I needed that. You

Nov 14 - 7PM
Froglegs
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BLOCK!

Nov 14 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
Ruby
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Hi. I had actually had my

Nov 15 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
petite7heaven
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Yeh!!!!!

Nov 15 - 5AM (Reply to #9)
IncognitoBurrito
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Oh God

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #11)
Ruby
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Hi. You know, I have not ever

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #12)
IncognitoBurrito
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Yep

Nov 15 - 9AM (Reply to #13)
Ruby
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Yes I absolutely agree. If it

Nov 15 - 6AM (Reply to #10)
Deidre99
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Regarding blocking and unblocking

Nov 15 - 3AM (Reply to #7)
Janie53
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Masquerade

Nov 15 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
Ruby
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Hi Janie. Trying very hard to