No contact

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#1 Jun 3 - 8AM
Pearl430
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No contact

In my situation it is impossible to have no contact. We have 3 children 14, 22, and 24. But this weekend the 14 yr old went on a 3 day trip with her friend and grandparents. I took that as an opportunity to stay no contact. I have not answered any calls from him or "wthheld numbers"(suspicous that it is him) Friday there were 4 wihheld calls and 2 from him. Saturday there were at least 5 calls and voicemails. Today there were at least 4 and it is barely 9am. Reasons for calls ranged from demanding to know what we are going to do about the house, chiding me fornot answereing, asking what he could have possibly done wrong, questioning if I recv'd. the support check, worried about the 14 yr old because he saw a tornado warning 100 mile from where she is, telling me to text him, etc. He alsmost got me wth the tornado but I called my friend and she talked me down.

I have to say that it feels good to just not have to interact with him but this is just a temporary peace. Monday the insanity comes back. With the 14 yr old comes daily contact he will be coming out to the car and if I don't take the calls he will call the 14 yr old and she will be dragged into it. For now, for today I will enjoy my peace.

Jun 3 - 2PM
Pearl430
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email

Jun 3 - 5PM (Reply to #14)
Hunter
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Ok .. YOU NEED TO LISTEN

Jun 3 - 8PM (Reply to #15)
Pearl430
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email

Jun 4 - 9AM (Reply to #16)
abreva
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I am so very proud of you, Pearl.

Jun 6 - 8PM (Reply to #17)
Pearl430
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update

Jun 6 - 8PM (Reply to #18)
abreva
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Excellent progress.

Jun 6 - 9PM (Reply to #19)
Pearl430
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on one hand

Jun 6 - 9PM (Reply to #20)
abreva
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Anticipation

Jun 3 - 2PM (Reply to #11)
abreva
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Pearl - how can we get this consistent?

Jun 3 - 2PM (Reply to #12)
Pearl430
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consistent

Jun 4 - 9AM (Reply to #13)
abreva
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There's no cooperation with these guys.

Jun 3 - 12PM
Deidre99
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i think you did a masterful

Jun 3 - 11AM
abreva
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email only

Jun 3 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
abreva
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Yes, a masterful job.

Jun 3 - 11AM
Hunter
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You need to set up an email

Jun 3 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
abreva
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Hunter, as a verb

Jun 3 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
Hunter
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Abreva

Jun 3 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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Pearl

Jun 3 - 8AM
Janie53
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Pearl

Jun 6 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
bluegirl
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I am so glad my kid is an